Just curious as cases of divorce, extra-marital affairs, homosexuality and lesbianism, etc., are as much part of Sikh families as any other community. Rather than throw the book at people perhaps a dialog would help in understanding provided by our Guru in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Let us define and I have gone to Wiki for it: I have tried to search for marriage in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji and found few results for marriage/ਵੀਆਹੁ. Similarly, I have I found it difficult to get direct reference to monogamy or to polygamy. Most references are to the following: good union or relationship (ਸੋਹਾਗਣੀ / sohāgaṇī) with the creator (as bridegroom) ---> blessed/accepted or fortunate bride lack of or bad (ਦੁਹਾਗਨਿ / ḏuhāgan) relationship with the creator ---> discarded or unfortunate bride So the question is how can we find prime guidance about monogamy/polygamy/homosexuality/lesbianism/unmarried or even common-law through Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji as well as about cross faith marriages. Let us also do a poll to find clues, as to why we are the way we are, 1. I am guided by Sikh Reht Maryada in these matters. 2. I am socially or parentally following clues or direction. 3. It is of my free will. 4. I wish Sikhism evolves towards free will in these matters. 5. To each their own. Sat Sri Akal.