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Why Are So Many, More And More Sikh Women Dating/marrying Hindu Men?

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Who do so many Sikh Women are dating and marrying Hindu Men. Here in India most of Sikh Women have Hindu Boyfriends and eventually marry them, In offices and colleges almost all Sikh Girls date Hindu Guys, very few Sikh Girls date their own Sikh Men. If such trend continues Sikhi will cease to exist.
 

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Who do so many Sikh Women are dating and marrying Hindu Men. Here in India most of Sikh Women have Hindu Boyfriends and eventually marry them, In offices and colleges almost all Sikh Girls date Hindu Guys, very few Sikh Girls date their own Sikh Men. If such trend continues Sikhi will cease to exist.
Is it really MOST Sikh women?
What about the Sikh men? Are any of them dating/marrying non-Sikh women?
Why is the entire existence of Sikhism dependent on women's marital decisions?
 

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Who do so many Sikh Women are dating and marrying Hindu Men. Here in India most of Sikh Women have Hindu Boyfriends and eventually marry them, In offices and colleges almost all Sikh Girls date Hindu Guys, very few Sikh Girls date their own Sikh Men. If such trend continues Sikhi will cease to exist.
I have noticed both in India and west, that many Sikh families seem to cling to Hindu brahminical practices. Even fire poojas, belief in avatars, idol worship, fasting (I have seen numerous Sikh women partake in Karva Chauth for example, Holi, Lori, celebration of male child etc) My own best friend did some very Hinduized rituals leading up to her marriage... they certainly weren't Sikh practice! My in laws are all Amritdhari and for our wedding we went strictly by SRM. Not to mention my friend had to marry someone from same caste (ramgharia) In some cases aside from the name, you might not even tell they are a Sikh family! Online recently I have seen posts on a Sikh site about how to do fire poojas for Sikhs and talking about devis and devtas as if they were real and part of Sikhi instead of the metaphors they were intended. Really!!! When the lines are getting this blurred what's the difference? Essentially these people are Hindus in Sikh bana anyway. So is it any wonder some girls end up marrying a Hindu boy??
 
Nov 21, 2017
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@jagdeep sadhu1: You true said Sir, It's really a concern for Sikh community and decline Sikh Moral values. ..as I knows numerous girls are married in Hindu faith, It's so weird, how parents allow theirs (Honour , Pagg) daughter to get marry with another faith ? Sikhs become so selfish coz they couldn't put pressure on ( Anand Kaaraj Act) and nor they tried to (Amend Hindu Marriage Act)......The only way to stop these marriages by educate daughters and learn them our moral values. ....We're all busy in making monies, So no one can paying attention towards (Social Evil) in Our faith. ...Haryana and West part of India is more concerned about their population ratio and they are strongly against these types of marriages. .....They never allows their daughter to get marry in another religion, (Khaap Panchayat) was formed for this purposes only. ...But gradually (Khaap Panchayat) become famous for (Honour Killing)
Really so sad by this decline. ...While Sikh guys are helpless to get a Sikh Girl for marriage, They buying girls from Orrisa, Bihar, Bangal, and backward areas of Chattisgarh ....Mix genes of both them ,Will produce warriors ???
Sant Sipahi ????

Please do aware our Sikh families to avoid them in interfaith marriages. ..

Bhull Chukk Maaf kareyo Jee
 

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Dear Jagdeepsandhu1
Would it be too much trouble to you, if you could introduce yourself, on the New SPNers thread?
That is the usual procedure when a "stranger" comes into one's house. Or is that unimportant?
So, if you are more interested in making whatever point you are trying to make, then so be it.
May God guide you.
Sat Sri Akal
 

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@jagdeep sadhu1: You true said Sir, It's really a concern for Sikh community and decline Sikh Moral values. ..as I knows numerous girls are married in Hindu faith, It's so weird, how parents allow theirs (Honour , Pagg) daughter to get marry with another faith ? Sikhs become so selfish coz they couldn't put pressure on ( Anand Kaaraj Act) and nor they tried to (Amend Hindu Marriage Act)......The only way to stop these marriages by educate daughters and learn them our moral values. ....We're all busy in making monies, So no one can paying attention towards (Social Evil) in Our faith. ...Haryana and West part of India is more concerned about their population ratio and they are strongly against these types of marriages. .....They never allows their daughter to get marry in another religion, (Khaap Panchayat) was formed for this purposes only. ...But gradually (Khaap Panchayat) become famous for (Honour Killing)
Really so sad by this decline. ...While Sikh guys are helpless to get a Sikh Girl for marriage, They buying girls from Orrisa, Bihar, Bangal, and backward areas of Chattisgarh ....Mix genes of both them ,Will produce warriors ???
Sant Sipahi ????

Please do aware our Sikh families to avoid them in interfaith marriages. ..

Bhull Chukk Maaf kareyo Jee
Ridiculous
 
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@sukhsingh , Thank you so much Sir, For giving comment "Ridiculous" ,But you must describe, how you can says it "Ridiculous" ?? It's not a serious concern for community ?? It's not loosing our moral values?? It's not decline population of Sikhs in India ??

2) You aren't aware about "ghar wapsi" and "Love Jehad "??? You living in civilised society and real Democrats country and enjoying the social services and benefits as well , But you couldn't imagine, Persons who are deprived from their fundamental rights. ..
I m talking about 1984 victims and black decade in Punjab. ...Mess you later busy
 

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@sukhsingh , Thank you so much Sir, For giving comment "Ridiculous" ,But you must describe, how you can says it "Ridiculous" ?? It's not a serious concern for community ?? It's not loosing our moral values?? It's not decline population of Sikhs in India ??

2) You aren't aware about "ghar wapsi" and "Love Jehad "??? You living in civilised society and real Democrats country and enjoying the social services and benefits as well , But you couldn't imagine, Persons who are deprived from their fundamental rights. ..
I m talking about 1984 victims and black decade in Punjab. ...Mess you later busy
I am literally lost for words
 

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@jagdeep ... They buying girls from Orrisa, Bihar, Bangal, and backward areas of Chattisgarh ....Mix genes of both them ,Will produce warriors ???
Sant Sipahi ????
It was never about genes or biology.

What produces warriors is Guru's kirpa and khanda batte di pahul.

But I think you already know that.

[AoG]
 

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Who do so many Sikh Women are dating and marrying Hindu Men. Here in India most of Sikh Women have Hindu Boyfriends and eventually marry them, In offices and colleges almost all Sikh Girls date Hindu Guys, very few Sikh Girls date their own Sikh Men. If such trend continues Sikhi will cease to exist.
Perhaps you should not be so worried about the future of Sikhi. You didn't create Sikhi, Akal Purakh Vaheguroo initiated this Panth and He will decide what happens to it in the future. Maybe you should be more concerned about your own personal conduct and your own life and soul, not about all the Sikh women dating and marrying Hindu men.

[AoG]
 

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There Is Only One God - Ek Oankar

Dear "jagdeepsandhu1"
Apparently the SPN computer is unable to find your name tag @..., for some reason.
Whoever you are, you joined SPN March 29 2017, and posted exactly the same post! (see link below).(Anyone is free to correct me)

Why Are So Many, More And More Sikh Women Dating/marrying Hindu Men?
On the same day you requested deletion of your account!

Kanwaljit Singh, RD1 and Harkiran Kaur posted some questions in response. However you did not post any reply whatsoever.
Kindly explain why? (Question One)

I posted a reply, as well, much later (after the person mentioned below drew this inconsistency to my attention) asking for your introduction, but no reply has been forthcoming. Why? (Question Two)

Then, 8 months down the road, a "An Humble Creature" (joined November 21 2017), posts a post, apparently having tried many other posts, in your thread. That is a question for you, "An Humble Creature". Kindly answer why? (Question Three)

Other SPNers have posted questions after that, but no replies are forthcoming.

My English here is very simple and my questions are very simple, so no excuses please. And the fact that all of you, or one of you, are posting things here, indicate that you have capabilities and access to technology that belie your statements.
If you require any assistance, please feel free to ask, anyone.

Sat Sri Akal
 
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There Is Only One God - Ek Oankar

Dear "jagdeepsandhu1"
Apparently the SPN computer is unable to find your name tag @..., for some reason.
Whoever you are, you joined SPN March 29 2017, and posted exactly the same post! (see link below).(Anyone is free to correct me)

Why Are So Many, More And More Sikh Women Dating/marrying Hindu Men?
On the same day you requested deletion of your account!

Kanwaljit Singh, RD1 and Harkiran Kaur posted some questions in response. However you did not post any reply whatsoever.
Kindly explain why? (Question One)

I posted a reply, as well, much later (after the person mentioned below drew this inconsistency to my attention) asking for your introduction, but no reply has been forthcoming. Why? (Question Two)

Then, 8 months down the road, a "An Humble Creature" (joined November 21 2017), posts a post, apparently having tried many other posts, in your thread. That is a question for you, "An Humble Creature". Kindly answer why? (Question Three)

Other SPNers have posted questions after that, but no replies are forthcoming.

My English here is very simple and my questions are very simple, so no excuses please. And the fact that all of you, or one of you, are posting things here, indicate that you have capabilities and access to technology that belie your statements.
If you require any assistance, please feel free to ask, anyone.

Sat Sri Akal
he owns a Sikh marriage agency!
 

Balbir27

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he owns a Sikh marriage agency!
Harry, you've hit the nail on the head. On what other basis would "jagdeepsandhu1" post this? Hang on while I hold my sides again.

I am literally lost for words
I think I'll join your club here.

The OP maker appears to make an "instigatory" statement [my view at least], does not provide any supporting evidence and does not join in discussions.

Harkiran Kaur helpfully pointed out some probable causes,

And I think AOG quite rightly brought the whole "thread" to a conclusion and closure.
 

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@sukhsingh , Thank you so much Sir, For giving comment "Ridiculous" ,But you must describe, how you can says it "Ridiculous" ?? It's not a serious concern for community ?? It's not loosing our moral values?? It's not decline population of Sikhs in India ??

2) You aren't aware about "ghar wapsi" and "Love Jehad "??? You living in civilised society and real Democrats country and enjoying the social services and benefits as well , But you couldn't imagine, Persons who are deprived from their fundamental rights. ..
I m talking about 1984 victims and black decade in Punjab. ...Mess you later busy
I find your talk of genes and biology disgusting..
 

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