Hi
Sat Sri Akal.
My son is 27. His behavior was suspicious for past few years.
He has mostly gora friends. For past two years his gora friends are in relationship with girls. Their relationship have been breaking and they finding new girls.
My son was reluntant to come home and wanting to stay nights out. We were suspicious and asked him and he usual response was he does not have girl friend. This week he told us that he is going to give us a shock and informed us he has girl friend for past one and half year. He wants to move out to girl's house. He says he wants freedom. We have never imposed any religious restrictions on him.
He was lying to us whenever he stayed out at nights and lied to the girl when he came home.
His girl friend encouraged him to inform us about his relationship.
Me and my husband have prominant position in sikh comunity and people say you have given very good values to your son.
My son says you should know how to deal with this shock and how to face your community now. I do not care about you. I will care about myself only.
it is more than nine years and he has not finished his degree (4 year degree). He was more active in socializing with gora community and working for them for free. He had put his career on stake for them. We have been trying to make him understand. For past none years he was falsely promising to us and breaking promises. When we asked about his uni results he after much questioning by his dad he responded he either failed or did not submit assignments. Same response came this week about his results.
He does not have a reliable source of income. We are catering his financial needs.
Girl,s english mother is divorced from indian father.
We tried to make our son understand that premarital physical relationship are not in Sikh values and religion but he wants evidence of it. We have not seen his girl friend. She is from Buddhism.
He does not understand. We are lost now..What shall we do? Please help us we are going through crisis and no one from out families to support us. My husband and I both are crying. please help....
Sat Sri Akal.
My son is 27. His behavior was suspicious for past few years.
He has mostly gora friends. For past two years his gora friends are in relationship with girls. Their relationship have been breaking and they finding new girls.
My son was reluntant to come home and wanting to stay nights out. We were suspicious and asked him and he usual response was he does not have girl friend. This week he told us that he is going to give us a shock and informed us he has girl friend for past one and half year. He wants to move out to girl's house. He says he wants freedom. We have never imposed any religious restrictions on him.
He was lying to us whenever he stayed out at nights and lied to the girl when he came home.
His girl friend encouraged him to inform us about his relationship.
Me and my husband have prominant position in sikh comunity and people say you have given very good values to your son.
My son says you should know how to deal with this shock and how to face your community now. I do not care about you. I will care about myself only.
it is more than nine years and he has not finished his degree (4 year degree). He was more active in socializing with gora community and working for them for free. He had put his career on stake for them. We have been trying to make him understand. For past none years he was falsely promising to us and breaking promises. When we asked about his uni results he after much questioning by his dad he responded he either failed or did not submit assignments. Same response came this week about his results.
He does not have a reliable source of income. We are catering his financial needs.
Girl,s english mother is divorced from indian father.
We tried to make our son understand that premarital physical relationship are not in Sikh values and religion but he wants evidence of it. We have not seen his girl friend. She is from Buddhism.
He does not understand. We are lost now..What shall we do? Please help us we are going through crisis and no one from out families to support us. My husband and I both are crying. please help....
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