Ask questions, lots of them, I would avoid talking to anyone, all you will get is that persons personal interpretation of Sikhism, and given most Sikhs follow a Vedicised version of Sikhism, and given most Gurudwaras observe Vedic customs such as full moon, half moon, no moon, your best bet if you wish to know about the Sikh values is to throw a question into the forum, read all the answers and then make your own mind up about what Sikhism means to you, and how it can help you on your life journey.I'm not sure where to start with my Sikh quest. I have been reading a bit but I would like to talk to a Sikh. Going to a Gurdwara would be overwhelming and is far from me. Best first steps to take?
I feel I am always New to Sikhi. Every day I have to start all over again.Try and learn Japuji and understand its meaning.