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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Harpreet Singhh" data-source="post: 177717" data-attributes="member: 18769"><p>Many people thinks what is a benefits of Cousins marriage. People in India made this criteria. Any people fall in love must follow this criteria</p><p> Relations < Love(marriage)< Cast</p><p></p><p>Think in your mind what is that ! Is this a joke ? No</p><p></p><p><strong>Question 1</strong>. Is anyone fall in love need to follow his heart or this criteria ?</p><p></p><p><strong>Answer is</strong>: Need to follow his heart first. As well as some respective relations which is on to the generation gap. For example: need to restrict such relationship with mother or mother’s sister because of respect of senior relation and because of one generation gap and also genetically restricted. But If it is mothers sisters daughter or son then it needs to allow because of same generation, Mutual administration, they are from different family and also genetically approved, marring his cousin is not a big deal.</p><p></p><p><strong>Question 2</strong>. Why we need to follow his heart ? what is its benefit ?</p><p></p><p><strong>Answer is</strong>: The second question is not a little thing to answer. We need to follow his heart because of his values of life, self-respect and the purity of his own heart. It is the biggest benefit of following heart. People in India believe that relative members are brother and sister. But instead of this we need to understand how to pure our heart. We need to understand what the real meaning of brother and sister. And also what is the real meaning of Love.</p><p>People can consider anyone as brother and sister either from relation or outside the relation. We need to understand the value of such relation named by brother and sister and need not much concert about bloodline. We need to understand the real need of such relation which can made through heart. The relationship of brother and sister is just like friendship. But it is little more than friendship. There are promises to protect each other. There is nothing romantic. If there is romance in between anyone then it need not to consider it as brother and sister forcibly. We don’t need to force anyone to consider it as brother and sister. Then we have to accept it as lovers and improve their relationship if it is genetically approved. Because by restricting anyone the anger and evil is created that cause criminal offense. People do the things hidden just because for fear but they never accept it in front of family and the heart goes for impurity. Then by hiding they are ruining the brother sister relationship. People lose character by doing romantic affairs hidden, just like they are doing crime. People become lire that increases criminal offense. The unwanted restrictions created evil and hate towards family. So we have to accept them as a lover. As much we open the unwanted restrictions the criminal offenses are become less because children start sharing every feelings and start loving much his family if they accept these couples.</p><p>Husband wife relationship needs more love , care , attention, respect and mutual administration and romance also. If any couples feels these things in one then he is your life partner because only you know which people value your feelings, emotions self-respect much better and from whom you can spend life much better. We never want to lose that person who value to your life just because he is slight related.</p><p>As our respective supreme court told us. Casteism breaks our India. Love marriages are only the solution to make them unit. Similarly, ugly thinking of relations is like little Casteism that breaks our relations and couples die. Love never want to break anything. Love always want to keep things together. Any two adult must need a rites to choose his life partner if there is no big issue genetically. Perhaps, genetic counselling is better option for every couples. Only that people knows from whom they peruse happiness in his life. We don’t have rites to kill their happiness just because they are slightly related. And also marriage is not a thing two check child bearing capacity. The purpose of marriage is only love. As much we open the gates of love marriage we can prevent crime like abortion of female child, dowry and women gets much value as we know women are God. It can decrease corruption also.</p><p>In India Laws are based on religion. But why laws are different for different religions. Muslims and Christians allow cousins to do marriage but Hindus doesn’t allow. All the laws made by religions are baseless. Why we are not following modern genetics and the latest techniques available of genetic counseling ! There is a need of re-building Constitutional Marriage laws which is fully based on modern genetics. And laws must be same for everyone in the country because we have to bind our countrymen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harpreet Singhh, post: 177717, member: 18769"] Many people thinks what is a benefits of Cousins marriage. People in India made this criteria. Any people fall in love must follow this criteria Relations < Love(marriage)< Cast Think in your mind what is that ! Is this a joke ? No [B]Question 1[/B]. Is anyone fall in love need to follow his heart or this criteria ? [B]Answer is[/B]: Need to follow his heart first. As well as some respective relations which is on to the generation gap. For example: need to restrict such relationship with mother or mother’s sister because of respect of senior relation and because of one generation gap and also genetically restricted. But If it is mothers sisters daughter or son then it needs to allow because of same generation, Mutual administration, they are from different family and also genetically approved, marring his cousin is not a big deal. [B]Question 2[/B]. Why we need to follow his heart ? what is its benefit ? [B]Answer is[/B]: The second question is not a little thing to answer. We need to follow his heart because of his values of life, self-respect and the purity of his own heart. It is the biggest benefit of following heart. People in India believe that relative members are brother and sister. But instead of this we need to understand how to pure our heart. We need to understand what the real meaning of brother and sister. And also what is the real meaning of Love. People can consider anyone as brother and sister either from relation or outside the relation. We need to understand the value of such relation named by brother and sister and need not much concert about bloodline. We need to understand the real need of such relation which can made through heart. The relationship of brother and sister is just like friendship. But it is little more than friendship. There are promises to protect each other. There is nothing romantic. If there is romance in between anyone then it need not to consider it as brother and sister forcibly. We don’t need to force anyone to consider it as brother and sister. Then we have to accept it as lovers and improve their relationship if it is genetically approved. Because by restricting anyone the anger and evil is created that cause criminal offense. People do the things hidden just because for fear but they never accept it in front of family and the heart goes for impurity. Then by hiding they are ruining the brother sister relationship. People lose character by doing romantic affairs hidden, just like they are doing crime. People become lire that increases criminal offense. The unwanted restrictions created evil and hate towards family. So we have to accept them as a lover. As much we open the unwanted restrictions the criminal offenses are become less because children start sharing every feelings and start loving much his family if they accept these couples. Husband wife relationship needs more love , care , attention, respect and mutual administration and romance also. If any couples feels these things in one then he is your life partner because only you know which people value your feelings, emotions self-respect much better and from whom you can spend life much better. We never want to lose that person who value to your life just because he is slight related. As our respective supreme court told us. Casteism breaks our India. Love marriages are only the solution to make them unit. Similarly, ugly thinking of relations is like little Casteism that breaks our relations and couples die. Love never want to break anything. Love always want to keep things together. Any two adult must need a rites to choose his life partner if there is no big issue genetically. Perhaps, genetic counselling is better option for every couples. Only that people knows from whom they peruse happiness in his life. We don’t have rites to kill their happiness just because they are slightly related. And also marriage is not a thing two check child bearing capacity. The purpose of marriage is only love. As much we open the gates of love marriage we can prevent crime like abortion of female child, dowry and women gets much value as we know women are God. It can decrease corruption also. In India Laws are based on religion. But why laws are different for different religions. Muslims and Christians allow cousins to do marriage but Hindus doesn’t allow. All the laws made by religions are baseless. Why we are not following modern genetics and the latest techniques available of genetic counseling ! There is a need of re-building Constitutional Marriage laws which is fully based on modern genetics. And laws must be same for everyone in the country because we have to bind our countrymen. [/QUOTE]
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