Sikhi instead of addressing all permutations and combinatins gives you a way of life which avoides all such siutation to arise in the first place.
I smoke and smoking doesn't make my mind go astray and cloud my thinking.Yes. smoking, drinking and taking drugs are not allowed in sikhi. In fact eating and drinking anything which can lead our mind astray and cloud our thinking is forbidden
so becuase its uncommon its not allowed?..then again that seems like your OPINIONAnal Sex on the other hand is very uncommon.. so i think it is not allowed
No, it is form of expressing love when in stable loving relationship, along with oral and vaginal sex.GushK said:Anal Sex - is a desire, part of Kaam, thus has no place in a Sikh's life.
Lets just call this a difference of opinion then.CaramelChocolate said:No, it is form of expressing love when in stable loving relationship, along with oral and vaginal sex.
.... it is allowed within marriage only and not to become addicted to and obsessed with.
I agree but such a state is very hard for mankind to achieve and hence religion settles this by giving laws of justification for sex, these being - emotion [love], moderation [not too frequently] and modesty [marriage, not in public or in front of others].GushK said:but because you have no more need of it. The urge has been extinguished.
2 people can love but never have the urge to have sex. The sexual urge is just that...an urge, not a requirement