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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="max314" data-source="post: 27003" data-attributes="member: 2817"><p>First up, congratulations on your new-found sense of happiness :wink:</p><p></p><p>Next, allow me to simply say this:</p><p></p><p>Things won't be easy. It's hard to think with your head when your heart won't listen, but in time things will begin to surface. Those things are the realities of relationships. Even among 'socially compatible' couples, ideological problems concerning conduct of everyday life, making decisions for children (this is often the biggest center of concern), and the relationship between the families all contribute towards the long-term success and vitality of a relationship.</p><p></p><p>Of course, when you have a Sikkh-Muslim couple, those dilemmas and issues that all couples face are magnified ten-fold, and the strain can be near-unbearable.</p><p></p><p>Passion is strong for as long as it lasts, but it burns out after a while. It can't last forever (trust me, I know from experience :wink<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />, even though it often feels as though it will.</p><p></p><p>I'm not saying "yay" or "nay", I'm just saying "be careful" because I can promise with almost 100% certainty that things <em>will</em> get difficult if you decide to go through with this.</p><p></p><p>I was actually 'in love' with the most incredible girl for about five years. She was Chinese and I was Indian. She was a devout Christian and I was passionate about Sikkhism. We would talk for hours about anything and everything, but even then, I could see that the topic of religion and ideological beliefs were causing some implicit friction that could only be amplified as time went on.</p><p></p><p>I never told her how I felt and, in time, those feelings faded. I still love her as a friend, and I learned a great deal from her; one of those things was that emotion <strong>can</strong> be controlled if you only choose to. You can channel your energies to direct your life in a very particular way. A way that is more gratifying than you ever thought possible. Once you get over that first 'big crush' it's kind of like a segway into realising that there are so many incredible, gifted, intelligent, beautiful grils out there...but in the end, you only need to commit yourself to one.</p><p></p><p>Personally? I'd say "wait a little longer" and focus on your life's priorities (studies, etc). In time, things just fall into place.</p><p></p><p>Trust me: I'm not saying this "because she's Muslim" or anything like that (I'm pretty liberal about things like that). I'm simply saying that these kinds of arrangements have strains that seem conquerable at first, but as time goes on and as people (including yourself) change, you will find that things may not be as glossy as you may have once thought they could be.</p><p></p><p>The reality of life :wink:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="max314, post: 27003, member: 2817"] First up, congratulations on your new-found sense of happiness :wink: Next, allow me to simply say this: Things won't be easy. It's hard to think with your head when your heart won't listen, but in time things will begin to surface. Those things are the realities of relationships. Even among 'socially compatible' couples, ideological problems concerning conduct of everyday life, making decisions for children (this is often the biggest center of concern), and the relationship between the families all contribute towards the long-term success and vitality of a relationship. Of course, when you have a Sikkh-Muslim couple, those dilemmas and issues that all couples face are magnified ten-fold, and the strain can be near-unbearable. Passion is strong for as long as it lasts, but it burns out after a while. It can't last forever (trust me, I know from experience :wink:), even though it often feels as though it will. I'm not saying "yay" or "nay", I'm just saying "be careful" because I can promise with almost 100% certainty that things [i]will[/i] get difficult if you decide to go through with this. I was actually 'in love' with the most incredible girl for about five years. She was Chinese and I was Indian. She was a devout Christian and I was passionate about Sikkhism. We would talk for hours about anything and everything, but even then, I could see that the topic of religion and ideological beliefs were causing some implicit friction that could only be amplified as time went on. I never told her how I felt and, in time, those feelings faded. I still love her as a friend, and I learned a great deal from her; one of those things was that emotion [b]can[/b] be controlled if you only choose to. You can channel your energies to direct your life in a very particular way. A way that is more gratifying than you ever thought possible. Once you get over that first 'big crush' it's kind of like a segway into realising that there are so many incredible, gifted, intelligent, beautiful grils out there...but in the end, you only need to commit yourself to one. Personally? I'd say "wait a little longer" and focus on your life's priorities (studies, etc). In time, things just fall into place. Trust me: I'm not saying this "because she's Muslim" or anything like that (I'm pretty liberal about things like that). I'm simply saying that these kinds of arrangements have strains that seem conquerable at first, but as time goes on and as people (including yourself) change, you will find that things may not be as glossy as you may have once thought they could be. The reality of life :wink: [/QUOTE]
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