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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Harry Haller" data-source="post: 201355" data-attributes="member: 14641"><p>of course, but please do keep trying to solve it, rather than be prepared to just throw money at it. </p><p></p><p>you waste time, which is precious in your situation, or you end up seeing someone who takes you further away from the solution. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>my wife is on meds, I have seen first hand what they do, but each to his own, </p><p></p><p>good, I am not trying to be cruel, but if you have enough people around you supporting you, then a few with tough love will give your problem some balance </p><p></p><p>without a doubt</p><p></p><p>Sorry <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I do not watch movies, but I will look that one up</p><p></p><p>excellent</p><p></p><p>in my view, no, this is what I would call 'bad times' you need to put all your energy, time, anger, strength into getting out of the black hole that you have landed in. Living normally suggests things are not that bad, and if they are not, then that is great, but if they are and all you are doing is putting your head in the sand, then complacency will follow and you will be stuck here for a while. As I understand it, you need to make a big push and draw a line under the way you feel. Once you have pushed out of the crisis zone, of course life is for living. There is a big parade of shops where mine is, trade is slow for all of us, I retail, web sale, wholesale, in fact any avenue I can sell laptops and computers I will do it. I have been without a car since the Range Rover died, preferring instead to spend the money on a decent member of staff to help me, I work maybe 13-16 hours a day, 7 days a week, but I am lucky in that I love being here, and I think I have a great life, sometimes it is tempting to 'live' a little, but I cannot afford to get the 'war footing' attitude out of my head, and in a war, which is where you are too, life is not normal, you are in a warzone, you need to focus on the battle ahead and every day try and win some ground. In contrast there is another shop just a few shops up from mine, they are always complaining about money and trade, yet they religiously close midweek as they 'need a day off' (together with the weekend), and they regularly go on holiday. Their shop is absolutely dying on its {censored}. I guess it is up to you how seriously YOU view your problems, sure you can write about them, tell people about them, cry on the shoulders of friends and family, but what are YOU going to do about getting out of this?</p><p></p><p></p><p> get a job first then live and enjoy all you want, your battle is not that big, with some determination and energy, your war is winnable, </p><p></p><p>then you will be scared for the rest of your life, but after a few sessions in the deep end, the fear will vanish, take instruction, learn, develop, grow, that is what life is all about</p><p></p><p>dont stop, don't be Hitler in the bunker waiting for the russians with a cyanide pill in your hand. get out there and fight</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harry Haller, post: 201355, member: 14641"] of course, but please do keep trying to solve it, rather than be prepared to just throw money at it. you waste time, which is precious in your situation, or you end up seeing someone who takes you further away from the solution. my wife is on meds, I have seen first hand what they do, but each to his own, good, I am not trying to be cruel, but if you have enough people around you supporting you, then a few with tough love will give your problem some balance without a doubt Sorry :) I do not watch movies, but I will look that one up excellent in my view, no, this is what I would call 'bad times' you need to put all your energy, time, anger, strength into getting out of the black hole that you have landed in. Living normally suggests things are not that bad, and if they are not, then that is great, but if they are and all you are doing is putting your head in the sand, then complacency will follow and you will be stuck here for a while. As I understand it, you need to make a big push and draw a line under the way you feel. Once you have pushed out of the crisis zone, of course life is for living. There is a big parade of shops where mine is, trade is slow for all of us, I retail, web sale, wholesale, in fact any avenue I can sell laptops and computers I will do it. I have been without a car since the Range Rover died, preferring instead to spend the money on a decent member of staff to help me, I work maybe 13-16 hours a day, 7 days a week, but I am lucky in that I love being here, and I think I have a great life, sometimes it is tempting to 'live' a little, but I cannot afford to get the 'war footing' attitude out of my head, and in a war, which is where you are too, life is not normal, you are in a warzone, you need to focus on the battle ahead and every day try and win some ground. In contrast there is another shop just a few shops up from mine, they are always complaining about money and trade, yet they religiously close midweek as they 'need a day off' (together with the weekend), and they regularly go on holiday. Their shop is absolutely dying on its {censored}. I guess it is up to you how seriously YOU view your problems, sure you can write about them, tell people about them, cry on the shoulders of friends and family, but what are YOU going to do about getting out of this? get a job first then live and enjoy all you want, your battle is not that big, with some determination and energy, your war is winnable, then you will be scared for the rest of your life, but after a few sessions in the deep end, the fear will vanish, take instruction, learn, develop, grow, that is what life is all about dont stop, don't be Hitler in the bunker waiting for the russians with a cyanide pill in your hand. get out there and fight [/QUOTE]
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