My friend called on me yesterday and we spent sometime in discovering Naam. He told me that one of the essential qualification for a seeker should be that he should not be affected by the highs and lows in life and should remain equi-poised to treat the 25 pair of opposites as same. He suggested me the 'pain and pleasure' should be treated as one as one follows the another likewise 'cold and hot' should also be treated as same by us. He counted up to 7 pair of opposites out of which I have stated two in the above lines.. I was not convinced with him. He told me that it is the state of mind that makes us feel happy or sad. :yes: Finally, he suggested me to write down a sentence the reading of which will make me sad if I am in happy state of affairs and vice-versa i.e it should make me feel happy if at that time I was a bit sad. I failed. He suggested me to take the help of my SPN friends. He shall tell me the answer today evening or tomorrow and that I shall share with you. Can you help me and try a sentence/phrase/expression the reading of which I shall be sad if I am happy and vice-versa.Could you write a sentence/words/some expression the reading of which will change/alter mood in the manner stated above.?