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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Pathfinder" data-source="post: 211280" data-attributes="member: 21250"><p>Have you seen God?. I said - no. Do you believe I'm hell? I said no again. Look at me charlie he yelled. I am your God for the next three years and I swear I will make it an unbearable hell for you, Do you get it.?. Aye sir, I get you.</p><p></p><p>That was my first Mate at sea, my first day as a cadet. Three years and so many humorous incidents of torture later the same Mate recommended me strongly.</p><p></p><p>Who is your God?. God is in you, in me, in us - sir, I answered three years later when questioned as we sat in a diner. Your cadetship is over so answer me as a friend he smiled at me. We all are manifestations of him i stated. We ended up visiting the Gurudwara later. You guys are tough he admitted. I said that i too was we and him too. There is no you or them, its just we. I was a second in command of his years later.</p><p></p><p>Three years as a cadet was rough, we were put through various breaking situations to test our resolve as I learnt later. It was really hell in a way. But you know - the more I was tested, the stronger my resolve grew. The tougher I became. I was told I would cry and break down and maybe wish or jump into the sea out of desperation to end the pain, humiliation soon. Yes, i broke down at times, I cried but I befriended king Neptune. I poured out my grief to him. He spoke back to me at times and told me that if I wanted to rule his domain I would have to be tough, not run to his lap in tears.</p><p></p><p>React as unexpected and it throws one off guard. When they ignore you you still smile at them, wish them with a smile. Join a group that you grow in, visit here, post here if you feel weak. But, don't let them define who you are. When they abuse you, just ignore and ask Waheguru to forgive them.</p><p></p><p>Imagine you are a sailor at sea and I have yet to meet a soft Mate, one who treats you well. They are your trainers and doing a good job at helping you control your anger and frustration.</p><p></p><p>They more they push you down, the more you stand taller. The more they try making you cry, the more you laugh. Let them realise that they cannot affect the way you feel. Stay happy when around them. This will knock their socks off.</p><p></p><p>Stop wanting to be a part of them.you are too good to deserve second best. Don't seek their defination of who you should be. Dont look at yourself through their eyes. When alone drown yourself in simran and positive thoughts. Let the new you be non-reactive, happy and comfortable in your own skin.</p><p></p><p>What you are is what you feel. So build a tough new you. It's not tough to be tough we believe at sea. You just need to start believing you are. You become what you believe.</p><p></p><p>Bullies feast on easy pickings, they pick on you because you let them, nothing to do with being a gay.</p><p></p><p>You wear a turban. Then how do you let a bunch of bullies dominate and beat you down, no - that's not fair. You are stronger than them, far stronger - if you only believe and act like one.</p><p></p><p>So, chin up charlie. Strap on those boots, smile like you feel sorry for these losers. Don't abuse them back - say softly - Waheguru guide me and take them head on. You want respect, you earn it the hard way. Just remember, all you have to do is remember that you are tough, tougher, toughest.</p><p></p><p>Lol, easier said than done you would say but I have been there, done that and emerged stronger. So will you soon.</p><p></p><p>Best of luck in this test of life, do well like i know, we know you can, will and must.</p><p></p><p>There are a lot of king Neptune's out here if you need some heart and soul talk.</p><p></p><p>Aye, so, go ahead and make us proud, most important - make yourself proud.</p><p></p><p>Remember, nobody, Nobody can bully you - period - and walk away Scot free except with guilt in their soul. That is not possible, no, it's mission impossible, lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Pathfinder, post: 211280, member: 21250"] Have you seen God?. I said - no. Do you believe I'm hell? I said no again. Look at me charlie he yelled. I am your God for the next three years and I swear I will make it an unbearable hell for you, Do you get it.?. Aye sir, I get you. That was my first Mate at sea, my first day as a cadet. Three years and so many humorous incidents of torture later the same Mate recommended me strongly. Who is your God?. God is in you, in me, in us - sir, I answered three years later when questioned as we sat in a diner. Your cadetship is over so answer me as a friend he smiled at me. We all are manifestations of him i stated. We ended up visiting the Gurudwara later. You guys are tough he admitted. I said that i too was we and him too. There is no you or them, its just we. I was a second in command of his years later. Three years as a cadet was rough, we were put through various breaking situations to test our resolve as I learnt later. It was really hell in a way. But you know - the more I was tested, the stronger my resolve grew. The tougher I became. I was told I would cry and break down and maybe wish or jump into the sea out of desperation to end the pain, humiliation soon. Yes, i broke down at times, I cried but I befriended king Neptune. I poured out my grief to him. He spoke back to me at times and told me that if I wanted to rule his domain I would have to be tough, not run to his lap in tears. React as unexpected and it throws one off guard. When they ignore you you still smile at them, wish them with a smile. Join a group that you grow in, visit here, post here if you feel weak. But, don't let them define who you are. When they abuse you, just ignore and ask Waheguru to forgive them. Imagine you are a sailor at sea and I have yet to meet a soft Mate, one who treats you well. They are your trainers and doing a good job at helping you control your anger and frustration. They more they push you down, the more you stand taller. The more they try making you cry, the more you laugh. Let them realise that they cannot affect the way you feel. Stay happy when around them. This will knock their socks off. Stop wanting to be a part of them.you are too good to deserve second best. Don't seek their defination of who you should be. Dont look at yourself through their eyes. When alone drown yourself in simran and positive thoughts. Let the new you be non-reactive, happy and comfortable in your own skin. What you are is what you feel. So build a tough new you. It's not tough to be tough we believe at sea. You just need to start believing you are. You become what you believe. Bullies feast on easy pickings, they pick on you because you let them, nothing to do with being a gay. You wear a turban. Then how do you let a bunch of bullies dominate and beat you down, no - that's not fair. You are stronger than them, far stronger - if you only believe and act like one. So, chin up charlie. Strap on those boots, smile like you feel sorry for these losers. Don't abuse them back - say softly - Waheguru guide me and take them head on. You want respect, you earn it the hard way. Just remember, all you have to do is remember that you are tough, tougher, toughest. Lol, easier said than done you would say but I have been there, done that and emerged stronger. So will you soon. Best of luck in this test of life, do well like i know, we know you can, will and must. There are a lot of king Neptune's out here if you need some heart and soul talk. Aye, so, go ahead and make us proud, most important - make yourself proud. Remember, nobody, Nobody can bully you - period - and walk away Scot free except with guilt in their soul. That is not possible, no, it's mission impossible, lol. [/QUOTE]
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