Anyone reading this thread would be convinced that Amritdhari Sikhs are precious in some way, easily offended, unable to integrate, smoking, drinking, weed, drugs, casual sex, loud music, are all facets of the real world we live in. As I sit in my shop this morning, the pungent smell of weed is already drifting along the streets, together with the bass line of loud music from parked cars, however, in the park opposite, young mothers take their children to school, I know a lot of them, they know me as the fat bearded indian that always has sweets and chocolate for their kids on the way home, some of the mums wear clothes so shocking I wonder how they do not get cold, but everyone knows the fat indian man sees them as sisters, mothers, daughters, nothing more. Sure I have had angry people in here, had a knife waved about in my face, but I find a good hug, a cuddle, always calms things down, it makes violent people quite silly, makes them ashamed, makes them cry, welcome to the real world.
Yes, I think what you should do is find a few more like minded Sikhs, and hide yourselves away from the real world, so that you can bathe, and get up early, meditate, and be nice and pure and clean.