betterfutures43
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- Aug 23, 2022
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It is no secret that in our community it is norm for older man to marry younger girl.
However I read really good post on here stating why it should be opposite.... Women almost all the time outlive men so shouldn't younger men be marrying older women to prevent them being widow for long time?
I understand concern about females' fertility age but of course that should be discussed before marriage. Also other big issue in our community is about mans' income and social status hence why women marry much older men when they are stable in terms of finances etc but I feel as a community this is another stigma we need to overcome and stop being narrow-minded otherwise I don't see our community lasting long into future if people are being too fussy about prospective life partner.
thoughts?
However I read really good post on here stating why it should be opposite.... Women almost all the time outlive men so shouldn't younger men be marrying older women to prevent them being widow for long time?
I understand concern about females' fertility age but of course that should be discussed before marriage. Also other big issue in our community is about mans' income and social status hence why women marry much older men when they are stable in terms of finances etc but I feel as a community this is another stigma we need to overcome and stop being narrow-minded otherwise I don't see our community lasting long into future if people are being too fussy about prospective life partner.
thoughts?
