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ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
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Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
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Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
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<blockquote data-quote="drkhalsa" data-source="post: 26769" data-attributes="member: 384"><p><strong>Re: Advice please. Thanks</strong></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Dear mortal welcome to the forum </span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I like to give my view about the thing discussed here , may be it can be of any use </span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">The first thing I would like to mentin that manypeople amight look upon this thing as bizarre or a joke or what ever but infact for todays world it has become reality </span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">People with such sexual preferences like your have existed from the time immorial but we don’t find mention of it it atleas in good way is due to the fact that such kind of thing occur in extreme minority and in past many might no have dared reveal it due to majority pressure </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">But now in the age of global coomuniaction and scienvce it is very easy to find to find people with similar mind set and also preferences and also there more expression or admittance of the facts now .</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">At first look it seems that such siyuation is even worse for the female but infact it is otherwise as Female have been proved to Mentally and Psychologically more energetic and strong then Male ( it has been agreed in medical science and also in Spirtuality as DASAM GURU Ji in his Bani describe Female as Form of SHAKTI in pure sense )</span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">So to start with there should be no Guilt or feeling of being on wrong side inside you as in your case as you have mentioned your self role / contribution leading to your present state of being is almost nil so why blame ?</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">And I don’t think that Sexual orientation is the only thing that shape your life for good . As understood in Sikh Philosophy the ultimate goal of any mortal human being is to raise his/ her counciousness to level where nothing else remains beside god and appreciate the ultimate truth that GOD only exist and I see no Brrier in your life stoping you fronm doing so . So there are many reason to cheer up !!<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">As I believe and understand to best of my knowledge any aspect of human nature and charater is not in YES and NO format Instaed there is spectrum of things </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">One cant be just angry man or just calm man for example and has to be spectrum of the thing </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">About the human orientation as man and female </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Although most of us take this decision in early years of life that whether we are gonna be man or woman and it hardly is remembered by any body as voluntary decision it is all dependant on gene expression and circumstances around every body . In general it is difficult to label any body whether he / she to either totallty manly or totally feminine in nature . There will always be spectrum of things which will collectively gives shape to the behavior and character of individual although there is strong trend to be identify with one of the either male / female .</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">In day to day to life everybody might have observed man with feminine qbent and laso female who seems less feminine or othr wise manly .</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">In Spirtuality there is a great example of sufi saints who happen to mainly Male but there spiritual path involved the development of Love for GOD and in the process they consider themselves the Soul Bride and ALLAH ,AKAL PURAKH as the ultimate manly groom </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">So on spiritual path these are just labels whether male or female . </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">And if your greater concern is that if you go ahead with the choice of marrying a man ( which seems most easy in your social setup ) then I don’t think that there is nay thing to feel guilty of not loving HIM as you can always relate with the femnine aspect of him </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Although I know that this wont to be your foremost choice or choice that your heart agrees but still there are many ways to relate to material world and it can manipulated .</span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I think I have said to much but hope it might help you in some way </span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">MayAKAL Bless us all</span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Jatinder Singh</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="drkhalsa, post: 26769, member: 384"] [b]Re: Advice please. Thanks[/b] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Dear mortal welcome to the forum [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I like to give my view about the thing discussed here , may be it can be of any use [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]The first thing I would like to mentin that manypeople amight look upon this thing as bizarre or a joke or what ever but infact for todays world it has become reality [/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]People with such sexual preferences like your have existed from the time immorial but we don’t find mention of it it atleas in good way is due to the fact that such kind of thing occur in extreme minority and in past many might no have dared reveal it due to majority pressure [/FONT][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]But now in the age of global coomuniaction and scienvce it is very easy to find to find people with similar mind set and also preferences and also there more expression or admittance of the facts now .[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]At first look it seems that such siyuation is even worse for the female but infact it is otherwise as Female have been proved to Mentally and Psychologically more energetic and strong then Male ( it has been agreed in medical science and also in Spirtuality as DASAM GURU Ji in his Bani describe Female as Form of SHAKTI in pure sense )[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]So to start with there should be no Guilt or feeling of being on wrong side inside you as in your case as you have mentioned your self role / contribution leading to your present state of being is almost nil so why blame ?[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]And I don’t think that Sexual orientation is the only thing that shape your life for good . As understood in Sikh Philosophy the ultimate goal of any mortal human being is to raise his/ her counciousness to level where nothing else remains beside god and appreciate the ultimate truth that GOD only exist and I see no Brrier in your life stoping you fronm doing so . So there are many reason to cheer up !!:)[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]As I believe and understand to best of my knowledge any aspect of human nature and charater is not in YES and NO format Instaed there is spectrum of things [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]One cant be just angry man or just calm man for example and has to be spectrum of the thing [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]About the human orientation as man and female [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Although most of us take this decision in early years of life that whether we are gonna be man or woman and it hardly is remembered by any body as voluntary decision it is all dependant on gene expression and circumstances around every body . In general it is difficult to label any body whether he / she to either totallty manly or totally feminine in nature . There will always be spectrum of things which will collectively gives shape to the behavior and character of individual although there is strong trend to be identify with one of the either male / female .[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]In day to day to life everybody might have observed man with feminine qbent and laso female who seems less feminine or othr wise manly .[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]In Spirtuality there is a great example of sufi saints who happen to mainly Male but there spiritual path involved the development of Love for GOD and in the process they consider themselves the Soul Bride and ALLAH ,AKAL PURAKH as the ultimate manly groom [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]So on spiritual path these are just labels whether male or female . [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]And if your greater concern is that if you go ahead with the choice of marrying a man ( which seems most easy in your social setup ) then I don’t think that there is nay thing to feel guilty of not loving HIM as you can always relate with the femnine aspect of him [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Although I know that this wont to be your foremost choice or choice that your heart agrees but still there are many ways to relate to material world and it can manipulated .[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I think I have said to much but hope it might help you in some way [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]MayAKAL Bless us all[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Jatinder Singh[/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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