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ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="drkhalsa" data-source="post: 24673" data-attributes="member: 384"><p><strong>Re: Advice please. Thanks</strong></p><p></p><p>Dear Sand Kaur</p><p></p><p>I can understand the difficult situation that has arisen in your life at this piont, and i really fell sorry for that </p><p></p><p>I refraining for writing any advise ,but then I jsut thought may be it will help you a bit . </p><p></p><p>Now about your sexual prefrences as you have mentioned are absolutely alright if we in light of modern medical science , by that I mean that all the major psychiatric bodies over the world have removed it from list of various psychological and psychiatric diseases eg DSMV-IV. </p><p>About Sikhism : There has been debate earlier on this forum about it and as I have understood there is no connection between your sexual prefrences and your connection with the AKAL as far as Sikh path is concerned . As for anybody who is on the path of sikhism with a wish/aim/goal to realise /meet AKAL , he/she has leave all the attachments behind at some point so it does not matter with what you are attached </p><p></p><p>But before this could happen in anybodies life which also include you with the grace of AKAL,,one has to spend his life in devotion while carrying out day to daylife . The main point here is that he/ she just need to spend his day to day life in devotion of god in as simple and peaceful manner as possible .</p><p></p><p>Now your problem actually starts here , as you are born in Indian background family .It is equally difficult for your parents to face such problem . the social rules and pressure ought to cloud their thinking about such an issue. I hope you understand their difficulty as well .</p><p></p><p>Now about your current situation . I actually dont know for how long you have actually decided firmly on your sexual differences .I medical Science ( Psychiatry) this called 'coming out' phase in life of gay/lesbain. but still there have been instances when such people have reverted too the opposite sexual preferences after some time .What is the case with you ,actually you know better . I am not here advising yo anything what to do, just saying the things to make everything clear.</p><p></p><p>Now my advise to you in such situation . </p><p>I thinkthe best person to talk is one your Sister if you have any or then your mother about whats going on in your life and disscus the possibel way out of it </p><p>The other thing is be in contact with people who are facing similar problems and get to know who they are dealing it </p><p>There are few people even on this forum who could help you i will give you their name and you can try contacting them. As I know then they are really nice people and will surely help you </p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/caramelchocolate.html" target="_blank">http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/caramelchocolate.html</a></p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/jogindar-singh-kaur.html" target="_blank">http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/jogindar-singh-kaur.html</a></p><p></p><p>Also you can have a look at this topic in your free time about the disscusion of Homosexuality and Sikhism</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/controversial-debates/586-sikhism-and-homosextuality-2.html" target="_blank">http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/controversial-debates/586-sikhism-and-homosextuality-2.html</a></p><p></p><p>Now just to some up again that their no reason to feel guilty if you have decided on your sexual preferences firmly. Their is nothing on the spirtual path of Sikhism thatwill stop youmeeting the Lord AKAL ( if you ever wish so<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> !!). Infact if you are spirtual minded then I would say that this current problem your life could prove to be life changing a at this moment of your life you have taken care to sort out your relation with the GOD ( AKAL).As everything is the will of AKAL so take this oppurtunity in a positive sense to improve your life for good.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>May Akal Bless you</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Jatinder Singh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="drkhalsa, post: 24673, member: 384"] [b]Re: Advice please. Thanks[/b] Dear Sand Kaur I can understand the difficult situation that has arisen in your life at this piont, and i really fell sorry for that I refraining for writing any advise ,but then I jsut thought may be it will help you a bit . Now about your sexual prefrences as you have mentioned are absolutely alright if we in light of modern medical science , by that I mean that all the major psychiatric bodies over the world have removed it from list of various psychological and psychiatric diseases eg DSMV-IV. About Sikhism : There has been debate earlier on this forum about it and as I have understood there is no connection between your sexual prefrences and your connection with the AKAL as far as Sikh path is concerned . As for anybody who is on the path of sikhism with a wish/aim/goal to realise /meet AKAL , he/she has leave all the attachments behind at some point so it does not matter with what you are attached But before this could happen in anybodies life which also include you with the grace of AKAL,,one has to spend his life in devotion while carrying out day to daylife . The main point here is that he/ she just need to spend his day to day life in devotion of god in as simple and peaceful manner as possible . Now your problem actually starts here , as you are born in Indian background family .It is equally difficult for your parents to face such problem . the social rules and pressure ought to cloud their thinking about such an issue. I hope you understand their difficulty as well . Now about your current situation . I actually dont know for how long you have actually decided firmly on your sexual differences .I medical Science ( Psychiatry) this called 'coming out' phase in life of gay/lesbain. but still there have been instances when such people have reverted too the opposite sexual preferences after some time .What is the case with you ,actually you know better . I am not here advising yo anything what to do, just saying the things to make everything clear. Now my advise to you in such situation . I thinkthe best person to talk is one your Sister if you have any or then your mother about whats going on in your life and disscus the possibel way out of it The other thing is be in contact with people who are facing similar problems and get to know who they are dealing it There are few people even on this forum who could help you i will give you their name and you can try contacting them. As I know then they are really nice people and will surely help you [url]http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/caramelchocolate.html[/url] [url]http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/members/jogindar-singh-kaur.html[/url] Also you can have a look at this topic in your free time about the disscusion of Homosexuality and Sikhism [url]http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/controversial-debates/586-sikhism-and-homosextuality-2.html[/url] Now just to some up again that their no reason to feel guilty if you have decided on your sexual preferences firmly. Their is nothing on the spirtual path of Sikhism thatwill stop youmeeting the Lord AKAL ( if you ever wish so:) !!). Infact if you are spirtual minded then I would say that this current problem your life could prove to be life changing a at this moment of your life you have taken care to sort out your relation with the GOD ( AKAL).As everything is the will of AKAL so take this oppurtunity in a positive sense to improve your life for good. May Akal Bless you Jatinder Singh [/QUOTE]
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