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<blockquote data-quote="Harkiran Kaur" data-source="post: 192274" data-attributes="member: 18224"><p>Harry Ji, you don't recognize sarcasm when you see it?? <img src="/images/smilies/sikhsmileys/kaurfacepalm.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":kaurfacepalm:" title="Kaurfacepalm :kaurfacepalm:" data-shortname=":kaurfacepalm:" /></p><p> </p><p>I was trying to be funny.... Of course I do not think I am a man... </p><p> </p><p>My point is, that women can also do all these things, and not all women are nurturers! And there are men who could nurture me to shame! This whole bread winner / nurturer thing is not revelant to the present time... where (actual childbirth aisde) men and women can pretty much do the same jobs interhcangeably! </p><p> </p><p>I see many women now becoming police, military, firefighters, and they can and do pass the physical tests on par with the men! Women have been in space, made strides in science, even work on construction crews, mining etc. Due to their biology they may have to work a bit harder for the physical things... but they CAN do it! The only thing limiting them before were the men! </p><p> </p><p>There are also men who can relate better to kids than some women and make great preschool teachers, etc. Women can be doctors just as easily as men can be nurses and personal care workers... etc. </p><p> </p><p>While our biology might differ a bit... men and women both possess unimagined potential. And both should be able to explore it! One gender shouldn't be kept from realizing their potential just because society thinks they should be doing nothing but cooking and cleaning and changing nappies. </p><p> </p><p>I believe in this day and age, household chores should be shared 50/50 and most families both parents must work anyway. (I don't think that necessarily means the child suffers either... look at it this way... children who attend playschool etc get socialized much earlier and that's a good thing. They learn to become more independant) Both parents can share equally in time with the kids... do things as a family in evenings and weekends. Both parents can cook together, and then the kids can pitch in and help do the dishes after. There's no rule that men can't change their fair share of diapers either or bathe their babies. And that bonding is awesome for both the Fathers as well as their babies!</p><p> </p><p>The above scenario actually results in a much closer knit family even with both parents working. The old model of man gone all day, comes home and expects dinner on the table, then the wife has to clean up everything alone, while he sits and watches tv. The kids learn that Mother means servant... She never gets a break... has worked all day in the house, while he gets to rest in the evening. It works much better when chores are shared and when the family do things together. There is no "This is woman's work, a man would never stoop so low" or "a woman could NEVER do a man's job" etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harkiran Kaur, post: 192274, member: 18224"] Harry Ji, you don't recognize sarcasm when you see it?? :kaurfacepalm: I was trying to be funny.... Of course I do not think I am a man... My point is, that women can also do all these things, and not all women are nurturers! And there are men who could nurture me to shame! This whole bread winner / nurturer thing is not revelant to the present time... where (actual childbirth aisde) men and women can pretty much do the same jobs interhcangeably! I see many women now becoming police, military, firefighters, and they can and do pass the physical tests on par with the men! Women have been in space, made strides in science, even work on construction crews, mining etc. Due to their biology they may have to work a bit harder for the physical things... but they CAN do it! The only thing limiting them before were the men! There are also men who can relate better to kids than some women and make great preschool teachers, etc. Women can be doctors just as easily as men can be nurses and personal care workers... etc. While our biology might differ a bit... men and women both possess unimagined potential. And both should be able to explore it! One gender shouldn't be kept from realizing their potential just because society thinks they should be doing nothing but cooking and cleaning and changing nappies. I believe in this day and age, household chores should be shared 50/50 and most families both parents must work anyway. (I don't think that necessarily means the child suffers either... look at it this way... children who attend playschool etc get socialized much earlier and that's a good thing. They learn to become more independant) Both parents can share equally in time with the kids... do things as a family in evenings and weekends. Both parents can cook together, and then the kids can pitch in and help do the dishes after. There's no rule that men can't change their fair share of diapers either or bathe their babies. And that bonding is awesome for both the Fathers as well as their babies! The above scenario actually results in a much closer knit family even with both parents working. The old model of man gone all day, comes home and expects dinner on the table, then the wife has to clean up everything alone, while he sits and watches tv. The kids learn that Mother means servant... She never gets a break... has worked all day in the house, while he gets to rest in the evening. It works much better when chores are shared and when the family do things together. There is no "This is woman's work, a man would never stoop so low" or "a woman could NEVER do a man's job" etc. [/QUOTE]
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