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<blockquote data-quote="Tejwant Singh" data-source="post: 111998" data-attributes="member: 138"><p>If we follow what our Dasam Pita said, " Jin prem kio, tinh hee PRABH payeioh," then we will stop using our physical power over our weak kids and hug them when they make a mistake, lift them up when they fall down, smile rather than frown when they have a slip up or two.</p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">By following </span>the teachings of our Dasam Pita, we will be able to motivate our kids and hence, cultivate love and respect rather than disdain, anger and hatred.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, The Bible says :<span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">"Do not with hold discipline from a child. if you BEAT him with a ROD, he will not die. Thou shalt BEAT him with a ROD and deliver his soul from Hell"</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Proverbs 23:13,14.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"> Now let us talk about the above from our Gurmat values. Do we want our own father to be beating the hell out of us when we do something wrong or we want him to motivate us , forgive us when we make a mistake and hug us and love us no matter what? </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">In other words instill goodness in us.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">There was a pastor in Atlanta,Georgia, who used the above biblical verse literally in the Church and encouraged the parents to do the same and was rightfully jailed.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Lee, as the saying goes, " Good actions need no reasons but bad actions need a lot of justifications". So, the other side of the coin would be, you may have been turned out to be much better than you are if you had not been spanked.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Yes, in Punjabi culture, spanking is also common but it is against our Gurmat values.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Spanking is nothing but a child abuse which is incapable of breeding love and goodness.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span> <span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 26px"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 26px"><span style="font-size: 10px">Tejwant Singh</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 26px"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tejwant Singh, post: 111998, member: 138"] If we follow what our Dasam Pita said, " Jin prem kio, tinh hee PRABH payeioh," then we will stop using our physical power over our weak kids and hug them when they make a mistake, lift them up when they fall down, smile rather than frown when they have a slip up or two. [FONT=Verdana]By following [/FONT]the teachings of our Dasam Pita, we will be able to motivate our kids and hence, cultivate love and respect rather than disdain, anger and hatred. Yes, The Bible says :[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]"Do not with hold discipline from a child. if you BEAT him with a ROD, he will not die. Thou shalt BEAT him with a ROD and deliver his soul from Hell" Proverbs 23:13,14. [/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2] Now let us talk about the above from our Gurmat values. Do we want our own father to be beating the hell out of us when we do something wrong or we want him to motivate us , forgive us when we make a mistake and hug us and love us no matter what? In other words instill goodness in us. There was a pastor in Atlanta,Georgia, who used the above biblical verse literally in the Church and encouraged the parents to do the same and was rightfully jailed. Lee, as the saying goes, " Good actions need no reasons but bad actions need a lot of justifications". So, the other side of the coin would be, you may have been turned out to be much better than you are if you had not been spanked. Yes, in Punjabi culture, spanking is also common but it is against our Gurmat values. [/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Spanking is nothing but a child abuse which is incapable of breeding love and goodness. [/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=2] [/SIZE] [FONT=Verdana][SIZE=10][SIZE=2] Tejwant Singh[/SIZE] [/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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