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Composition, Arrangement & Layout
ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="seeker3k" data-source="post: 93849" data-attributes="member: 6459"><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Greeting Neutral Singh,</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">First of all I wish to thank you for bringing this problem to light.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">As a male on the behalf of males I am really ashamed. All the people replied to this problem made excuses but no apology about men, boy’s behavior. It is ironic that women also discriminate against their daughters. They them self are women but still treat their son better then their daughter.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">This Baljeet Singh said it very intelligently: </span></span><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Sikhism today is again passing through a test. It must pass again with flying colors. All those whom you see around are weak <a href="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/" target="_blank">Sikhs</a>. They will and should just disappear from the <a href="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/" target="_blank">Sikh</a> community. Ironically, it is better for the Sikhi future. Only those who have the courage will remain "true" <a href="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/" target="_blank">Sikhs</a>.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Lets not address the problem, but condemn other people who are week.He still did not get it what the problem is.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Aman Singh blame it on the Punjabi culture. Not the Sikhs religion. It is the people who make up the religion. If the majority in Punjab are Sikhs then it have to be religion issue. Maybe he is putting the blame on Hinus, it is them who are trying to corrupt Sikhs youth</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">It was problem in Christian and jews. Christian changed with time Jews changed some what. Muslim still have problem. Here is example: If girl get raped. It is very hard to have her complaint heard at the poloce. Becouse she must have a man who has to be non related to girl as a witness. Now the girl should ask her raper to hold on so she can get non related man as a witness. If that is not crazy then what is?</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Hindus have so many rituals that degrade women and they also have many good ritual that honor women. Look around how many women gods are there being worshiped by men also.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">I am over 60. I Was born in Punjab. Moved to Uk. Now in Canada since 1971.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">When I look back to my youth, I am ashamed of my self. When I lived in Southall I was living among our own people. There was no real close white friends. So I had same attitude as I had in India. Bad,Bad. It was in Canada that really opened my eyes and heart. That there is a world beyond Sikhism. I am not condemning Sikhism but it is what these so called Sikhs are doing that bother me. Their teaching, preaching that is turning people against people. Manas jat ek pehchon. This is only for the reading not to be followed. Manas jat include hindus muslim Christian and all people with out exemption. When one belive that his/her religion is supreme, he/she start to hate others.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">It is the ruling group of Sikhs have to change so people can change. Why woman cant read path and do the kirtan in Harmander Sahib? Why there is never a women in the 5 pyare when there is amrit pan. I amy be wrong in this but I have not seen any woman doing it. It was same and still is in Christian Catholic religion. Butpeople broke away and made their own group. It was same for the Gays. You are right about the money in front of Guru Granth. It really look like we are bowing down to money golak. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">As a boy one is very happy and proud that he got girl-friend. He will tell his friends about his GF. But if his sis have a BF all hell brake loose. Why? He forget that his Gf is also some one’s sister.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Where is the blame? I think it is more on parent then child but, When child is grown up to be youth, then it is up to the youth to make a change in her life. It is not healthy to keep blaming parent society for the rest of the life.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">When we want to buy a car we ask professionals about which car is best. Same when we want to buy house. Because there is lot of money we are investing in it. How come we don’t think when we adopt religion? We just accept it with out studying about it. This is what happens when we choose with out any investigation. If any religion preach hatred then why join in? One do not to be in religion to be spiritual.All the religion are made by men not women. If thinking rationally logically is week then I am glad that I am week. These people just want you and me to save tgeir way of life and they will fight till hell freeze over. Beware of these power hungry and greedy arrogant men and some women. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">We can not understand others if we have hatred in our heart. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seeker3k, post: 93849, member: 6459"] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Greeting Neutral Singh,[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]First of all I wish to thank you for bringing this problem to light.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]As a male on the behalf of males I am really ashamed. All the people replied to this problem made excuses but no apology about men, boy’s behavior. It is ironic that women also discriminate against their daughters. They them self are women but still treat their son better then their daughter.[/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]This Baljeet Singh said it very intelligently: [/FONT][/SIZE][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Sikhism today is again passing through a test. It must pass again with flying colors. All those whom you see around are weak [URL="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/"]Sikhs[/URL]. They will and should just disappear from the [URL="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/"]Sikh[/URL] community. Ironically, it is better for the Sikhi future. Only those who have the courage will remain "true" [URL="http://www.sikhism.us/sikh/"]Sikhs[/URL].[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Lets not address the problem, but condemn other people who are week.He still did not get it what the problem is.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Aman Singh blame it on the Punjabi culture. Not the Sikhs religion. It is the people who make up the religion. If the majority in Punjab are Sikhs then it have to be religion issue. Maybe he is putting the blame on Hinus, it is them who are trying to corrupt Sikhs youth[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]It was problem in Christian and jews. Christian changed with time Jews changed some what. Muslim still have problem. Here is example: If girl get raped. It is very hard to have her complaint heard at the poloce. Becouse she must have a man who has to be non related to girl as a witness. Now the girl should ask her raper to hold on so she can get non related man as a witness. If that is not crazy then what is?[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Hindus have so many rituals that degrade women and they also have many good ritual that honor women. Look around how many women gods are there being worshiped by men also.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I am over 60. I Was born in Punjab. Moved to Uk. Now in Canada since 1971.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]When I look back to my youth, I am ashamed of my self. When I lived in Southall I was living among our own people. There was no real close white friends. So I had same attitude as I had in India. Bad,Bad. It was in Canada that really opened my eyes and heart. That there is a world beyond Sikhism. I am not condemning Sikhism but it is what these so called Sikhs are doing that bother me. Their teaching, preaching that is turning people against people. Manas jat ek pehchon. This is only for the reading not to be followed. Manas jat include hindus muslim Christian and all people with out exemption. When one belive that his/her religion is supreme, he/she start to hate others.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]It is the ruling group of Sikhs have to change so people can change. Why woman cant read path and do the kirtan in Harmander Sahib? Why there is never a women in the 5 pyare when there is amrit pan. I amy be wrong in this but I have not seen any woman doing it. It was same and still is in Christian Catholic religion. Butpeople broke away and made their own group. It was same for the Gays. You are right about the money in front of Guru Granth. It really look like we are bowing down to money golak. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]As a boy one is very happy and proud that he got girl-friend. He will tell his friends about his GF. But if his sis have a BF all hell brake loose. Why? He forget that his Gf is also some one’s sister.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Where is the blame? I think it is more on parent then child but, When child is grown up to be youth, then it is up to the youth to make a change in her life. It is not healthy to keep blaming parent society for the rest of the life.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]When we want to buy a car we ask professionals about which car is best. Same when we want to buy house. Because there is lot of money we are investing in it. How come we don’t think when we adopt religion? We just accept it with out studying about it. This is what happens when we choose with out any investigation. If any religion preach hatred then why join in? One do not to be in religion to be spiritual.All the religion are made by men not women. If thinking rationally logically is week then I am glad that I am week. These people just want you and me to save tgeir way of life and they will fight till hell freeze over. Beware of these power hungry and greedy arrogant men and some women. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]We can not understand others if we have hatred in our heart. [/FONT][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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