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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="FiveLovedOnes" data-source="post: 54810" data-attributes="member: 4856"><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Yes U r very right.Sikh Girls have poor knowledge of outside n what is happening to girls in other religions.Sikhs r the ones who r most respectful of all towards their females :roll:although bads r in every religion but i think Sikh girls take it differently n more negatively n try to be more repulsive.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Sikh religion provide more freedom to females n In fact they r considering it as an advantage for easily following bad tracks.:shock: They always from the day one think of losing break from sikhi n want an easy way of life.But they forget that best way is Sikhi way.Whenever people talk to girls about sikhi n gurus n Gurubani they turn back their head first.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Sikh boys wear their dastaar or patka from day one n whenever they see themselves in mirror they automatically get inclined to sikhi (becoz dastaar n patka always haunt them with questions why we r wearing it n what is the significance of it) n thereby develop the tendency to explore more about Sikhi,Gurus,Gurubani n sikh history n thereby develop the power of exploring sikhi n sikhism.This is the power of wearing a dastaar on one's head.believe it or not but it is true.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite6" alt=":cool:" title="Cool :cool:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":cool:" /></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>What about girls.Their mothers r always on loose in sikhi,never wear a dastaar(n so she is a different role model for her daughters) n hardly ever practice sikhi on their own n given freedom by Guru n sikhs girls fully exploit it.mother never wore any dastaar on their heads from long back while males have been wearing turban despite of so many problems.The more problems they face harder they become in sikhi.In girls noone teaches girls to wear dastaar on their head from childhood that Guru Gobind Singh Ji strongly recommended for all sikh females too.<span style="color: Red">"SABAT SURAT DASTAAR SIRA"</span>.This is true for both men n women.This dastaar on the head of sikh girls can make them more inclined towards sikhi. whenever they will see themselves in mirror n always feel that they wear it for Guru Their quest for sikhi n Guru's teachings will automatically grow just like boys.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite6" alt=":cool:" title="Cool :cool:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":cool:" /></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>If girls r protected by their parents from the worldly dirt n stopped doing many things they instead of thanking to them they start revolting n start asking for more freedom.Given more freedom as they grow they run away from sikhi more n more n more easily attracted by worldly dirt n their own devils.Finally become an easy prey to their own evils :}8-: inside n finally an easy prey to some bad guy out there.they always see some hero from films as their role model but never look at Guru Gobind Singh ( the super prince n king ) as their role hero for guidance.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>:advocate:Well gurus have told us clearly that it is individual duty of every human(Male n Female) that they have to work on themselves to become nice,religious n a good sikh of guru.One has to fight back the world 's dirt and their own evils every moment(inside evils r more powerful than outside evils) but everything is easy by self realisation,self control,following guru n his teaching,raising ur thoughts towards more postive side,ignoring the dirt around us that easily attracts us,thanking to our elders for stopping us going wrong paths n not revolting for more freedom-holds true for men n women, and fighting back ur own mind whenever it tries to slip on wrong track,enjoying listening to guru shabads,watching videos n movies on sikhs n sikhi n feel proud always as strong sikhs,learning about sikh history n learning thru their past history knowledge they should try to expose Sikh girls more in society as role models for other sikh girls n should expose the meaning of true freedom given by Gurus n parents n others.Girls of today r really confused n live in low-spirits.they seriously need great guidance from all corners n sikh people n sikhi sources.:advocate: <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Parents know what is good for their children n those who think that their parents r against them by cutting down their freedom they r very wrong.Taking away little of their freedom n preventing them from going wrong way at young age is for their good.At young age they r still ignorant n so should feel proud to be always under the guidance of their elders n gurus.Girls will realise this beauty of stealing their freedom only when they r matured n fully grown up n can really think back of the good done to them by their elders.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>above message is for those who don't follow sikhi,take positive things negatively n live without high spirits.they should work on themselves thru Gurubani,parent's assistance,assistance from gurudwaras(ignoring weaknesses of others n focussed on what they need),learning from books n web-videos on sikhi n sikhs around(again then be focussed on good stuff n not getting attracted towards dirt in sikhs-being always positive n getting the best they need to be a good Sikh girl), n other sources.:advocate:</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong>moms must work harder on their kids teaching them :advocate:sikhi n herself following Sikhi first as she is the role model for her daughters n father is always a role model for sons till they mature n start exploring sikhi on their own.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="FiveLovedOnes, post: 54810, member: 4856"] [FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2][COLOR=Blue][B]Yes U r very right.Sikh Girls have poor knowledge of outside n what is happening to girls in other religions.Sikhs r the ones who r most respectful of all towards their females :roll:although bads r in every religion but i think Sikh girls take it differently n more negatively n try to be more repulsive. Sikh religion provide more freedom to females n In fact they r considering it as an advantage for easily following bad tracks.:shock: They always from the day one think of losing break from sikhi n want an easy way of life.But they forget that best way is Sikhi way.Whenever people talk to girls about sikhi n gurus n Gurubani they turn back their head first. Sikh boys wear their dastaar or patka from day one n whenever they see themselves in mirror they automatically get inclined to sikhi (becoz dastaar n patka always haunt them with questions why we r wearing it n what is the significance of it) n thereby develop the tendency to explore more about Sikhi,Gurus,Gurubani n sikh history n thereby develop the power of exploring sikhi n sikhism.This is the power of wearing a dastaar on one's head.believe it or not but it is true.:cool: What about girls.Their mothers r always on loose in sikhi,never wear a dastaar(n so she is a different role model for her daughters) n hardly ever practice sikhi on their own n given freedom by Guru n sikhs girls fully exploit it.mother never wore any dastaar on their heads from long back while males have been wearing turban despite of so many problems.The more problems they face harder they become in sikhi.In girls noone teaches girls to wear dastaar on their head from childhood that Guru Gobind Singh Ji strongly recommended for all sikh females too.[COLOR=Red]"SABAT SURAT DASTAAR SIRA"[/COLOR].This is true for both men n women.This dastaar on the head of sikh girls can make them more inclined towards sikhi. whenever they will see themselves in mirror n always feel that they wear it for Guru Their quest for sikhi n Guru's teachings will automatically grow just like boys.:cool: If girls r protected by their parents from the worldly dirt n stopped doing many things they instead of thanking to them they start revolting n start asking for more freedom.Given more freedom as they grow they run away from sikhi more n more n more easily attracted by worldly dirt n their own devils.Finally become an easy prey to their own evils :}8-: inside n finally an easy prey to some bad guy out there.they always see some hero from films as their role model but never look at Guru Gobind Singh ( the super prince n king ) as their role hero for guidance. :advocate:Well gurus have told us clearly that it is individual duty of every human(Male n Female) that they have to work on themselves to become nice,religious n a good sikh of guru.One has to fight back the world 's dirt and their own evils every moment(inside evils r more powerful than outside evils) but everything is easy by self realisation,self control,following guru n his teaching,raising ur thoughts towards more postive side,ignoring the dirt around us that easily attracts us,thanking to our elders for stopping us going wrong paths n not revolting for more freedom-holds true for men n women, and fighting back ur own mind whenever it tries to slip on wrong track,enjoying listening to guru shabads,watching videos n movies on sikhs n sikhi n feel proud always as strong sikhs,learning about sikh history n learning thru their past history knowledge they should try to expose Sikh girls more in society as role models for other sikh girls n should expose the meaning of true freedom given by Gurus n parents n others.Girls of today r really confused n live in low-spirits.they seriously need great guidance from all corners n sikh people n sikhi sources.:advocate: :) Parents know what is good for their children n those who think that their parents r against them by cutting down their freedom they r very wrong.Taking away little of their freedom n preventing them from going wrong way at young age is for their good.At young age they r still ignorant n so should feel proud to be always under the guidance of their elders n gurus.Girls will realise this beauty of stealing their freedom only when they r matured n fully grown up n can really think back of the good done to them by their elders. above message is for those who don't follow sikhi,take positive things negatively n live without high spirits.they should work on themselves thru Gurubani,parent's assistance,assistance from gurudwaras(ignoring weaknesses of others n focussed on what they need),learning from books n web-videos on sikhi n sikhs around(again then be focussed on good stuff n not getting attracted towards dirt in sikhs-being always positive n getting the best they need to be a good Sikh girl), n other sources.:advocate: moms must work harder on their kids teaching them :advocate:sikhi n herself following Sikhi first as she is the role model for her daughters n father is always a role model for sons till they mature n start exploring sikhi on their own. 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