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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="JeevanS" data-source="post: 24689" data-attributes="member: 1662"><p>Lover hanged after poison letters</p><p></p><p>A woman hanged herself following a "campaign of harassment" from her</p><p>boyfriend's father, an inquest heard.</p><p></p><p>Neelam Banger, of West Bromwich, was in a relationship with Shiv Pattni. But</p><p>Mr Pattni's father Baharat had arranged for him to marry another woman.</p><p></p><p>Mr Pattni Snr, of Sutton Coldfield, sent one letter threatening to reveal</p><p>sexual text messages she sent his son.</p><p></p><p>Black Country Coroner Robin Balmain said it was impossible to say if the</p><p>letters caused Miss Banger's suicide.</p><p></p><p>But he called it "disgraceful harassment".</p><p></p><p>Your parents will be given in writing what you have said to Shiv in your</p><p>text messages</p><p>Letter from Baharat Pattni</p><p></p><p>"There are particular pressures in Asian communities because of the</p><p>different cultures between the parents and the way the children have been</p><p>brought up. It is very regrettable."</p><p></p><p>The letter Mr Pattni Snr sent read: "If the problems continue your parents</p><p>will be given in writing what you have said to Shiv in your text messages."</p><p></p><p>He also threatened to sue her for £30,000 that had been spent on celebrating</p><p>his son's engagement.</p><p></p><p>A leaflet was also sent to Miss Banger which said Shiv Pattni had been</p><p>trapped by "evil ways by a woman call Neelam Banger" and went on to detail</p><p>sexually explicit text messages.</p><p></p><p>The leaflet had been written on the Pattni family computer but Mr Pattni Snr</p><p>denied being its author.</p><p></p><p>Mr Pattni Snr told the hearing he had not meant to threaten Miss Banger,</p><p>only to bring her relationship with his son into the open.</p><p></p><p>Story from BBC NEWS:</p><p><a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/england/west_midlands/4956636.stm" target="_blank">http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/england/west_midlands/4956636.stm</a></p><p></p><p>Published: 2006/04/28 18:59:39 GMT</p><p></p><p>© BBC MMVI</p><p></p><p>My own personal comments on the story above, I am tired of our own Sikh Community </p><p>failing to protect our girls. My thoughts are with the family of the girl, who </p><p>have suffered as we in the Sikh Community could not support one of our own daughters. </p><p>RIP Neelam Banger.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JeevanS, post: 24689, member: 1662"] Lover hanged after poison letters A woman hanged herself following a "campaign of harassment" from her boyfriend's father, an inquest heard. Neelam Banger, of West Bromwich, was in a relationship with Shiv Pattni. But Mr Pattni's father Baharat had arranged for him to marry another woman. Mr Pattni Snr, of Sutton Coldfield, sent one letter threatening to reveal sexual text messages she sent his son. Black Country Coroner Robin Balmain said it was impossible to say if the letters caused Miss Banger's suicide. But he called it "disgraceful harassment". Your parents will be given in writing what you have said to Shiv in your text messages Letter from Baharat Pattni "There are particular pressures in Asian communities because of the different cultures between the parents and the way the children have been brought up. It is very regrettable." The letter Mr Pattni Snr sent read: "If the problems continue your parents will be given in writing what you have said to Shiv in your text messages." He also threatened to sue her for £30,000 that had been spent on celebrating his son's engagement. A leaflet was also sent to Miss Banger which said Shiv Pattni had been trapped by "evil ways by a woman call Neelam Banger" and went on to detail sexually explicit text messages. The leaflet had been written on the Pattni family computer but Mr Pattni Snr denied being its author. Mr Pattni Snr told the hearing he had not meant to threaten Miss Banger, only to bring her relationship with his son into the open. Story from BBC NEWS: [URL="http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/england/west_midlands/4956636.stm"]http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/england/west_midlands/4956636.stm[/URL] Published: 2006/04/28 18:59:39 GMT © BBC MMVI My own personal comments on the story above, I am tired of our own Sikh Community failing to protect our girls. My thoughts are with the family of the girl, who have suffered as we in the Sikh Community could not support one of our own daughters. RIP Neelam Banger. [/QUOTE]
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