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Composition, Arrangement & Layout
ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Ayah_2023" data-source="post: 224235" data-attributes="member: 25850"><p>I am 31 year old Muslim woman from the UK, I am a professional and have been independent for a long time. I have met people of my own background and faith but never felt it was right and I never wanted to settle with just anyone for the sake of getting married or giving into social pressure. I've met a Sikh man who isn't practicing but is very inclined to his faith as I am to mine. We both find ourselves in 'love'. We both believe in our respective faiths as they have been our light during our own tough times and do not wish to impose on the other, I myself am practicing and hence why find it even more confusing finding myself in this position. I never thought this would happen, we are not sixteen - young or dumb and are aware it is a challenge. </p><p></p><p>We both quickly realise that we want to be together and get married. Our outlook, views, values, experiences, wishes and spiritual views are very compatible and we make each other laugh and are able to have tough conversations without breaking down or being rude or disrespectful. I find he is such a compassionate, generous, kind and strong soul, the kind of man I have been praying for to complete me. We both don't believe in fairy tales but this feels very natural for us and the only thing holding us back is religion. </p><p></p><p>His family are quiet open and liberal, he loves Sikhi and I love Islam and he doesn't want me to change but I am scared of what will happen. I've been trying to find similar situations and to see if it works, to stop myself from going crazy and thinking I will go to hell If I do this. I do want a marriage and a nikah - a blessing and in my heart I believe Allah is everyone's God, our language or colour might be different but If you open us up, we all have the same organs and heart. How can our Creator therefore be different then? I am happy to go Gudwara too as I find Islam itself and Sikhism - if you put aside the politics, propaganda and ignorance of people - are the same in their message and at their core and preach the same morals and ideas. I do not want to convert and neither would he want me to. And deep down even though it would be easier if he was Muslim, I respect and love him for who he is and the person he is, is partly because of his deep love for Sikhi and i admire that. </p><p></p><p>I feel he is my better half and he believes I am his. We compliment each other and find peace in each other, peace like I have never known before from a human. I have experienced some extremley tough times in life but God always showed me a light at the end and allowed me to become resilient and overcome the challenges. I cannot believe he would get me to this point and allow me to meet this man for it to be something I would have to sacrifice. I believe God is love - in meeting him, I thought this is what God says marriage and love should be - it says our spouses are like 'garments' for us and sent down for us so we can find 'tranquility' in them... to me even though I am Muslim and he is Sikh, he is a believer as we both believe in One God, love, humanity, compassion, seveh - charity work, kindess and in working hard and doing our best.</p><p></p><p>I guess I am just afraid, even in 2023 of what people may say and esp becuase my family or community won't accept him if he doesn't convert - hell my family will still not accept him. I find myself in conflict within myself. </p><p></p><p>Any advice will be appreciated. Please do not share any hatred or right wing views, neither my Prophet pbuh or Guru Nanak Ji ever bashed another faith or person, in fact that openly sat amongst everyone and preached love and guided people to their own goodness and consciousness. Please be respectful. </p><p></p><p>Thanking you in advance. </p><p>A seeking soul - Ayah.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ayah_2023, post: 224235, member: 25850"] I am 31 year old Muslim woman from the UK, I am a professional and have been independent for a long time. I have met people of my own background and faith but never felt it was right and I never wanted to settle with just anyone for the sake of getting married or giving into social pressure. I've met a Sikh man who isn't practicing but is very inclined to his faith as I am to mine. We both find ourselves in 'love'. We both believe in our respective faiths as they have been our light during our own tough times and do not wish to impose on the other, I myself am practicing and hence why find it even more confusing finding myself in this position. I never thought this would happen, we are not sixteen - young or dumb and are aware it is a challenge. We both quickly realise that we want to be together and get married. Our outlook, views, values, experiences, wishes and spiritual views are very compatible and we make each other laugh and are able to have tough conversations without breaking down or being rude or disrespectful. I find he is such a compassionate, generous, kind and strong soul, the kind of man I have been praying for to complete me. We both don't believe in fairy tales but this feels very natural for us and the only thing holding us back is religion. His family are quiet open and liberal, he loves Sikhi and I love Islam and he doesn't want me to change but I am scared of what will happen. I've been trying to find similar situations and to see if it works, to stop myself from going crazy and thinking I will go to hell If I do this. I do want a marriage and a nikah - a blessing and in my heart I believe Allah is everyone's God, our language or colour might be different but If you open us up, we all have the same organs and heart. How can our Creator therefore be different then? I am happy to go Gudwara too as I find Islam itself and Sikhism - if you put aside the politics, propaganda and ignorance of people - are the same in their message and at their core and preach the same morals and ideas. I do not want to convert and neither would he want me to. And deep down even though it would be easier if he was Muslim, I respect and love him for who he is and the person he is, is partly because of his deep love for Sikhi and i admire that. I feel he is my better half and he believes I am his. We compliment each other and find peace in each other, peace like I have never known before from a human. I have experienced some extremley tough times in life but God always showed me a light at the end and allowed me to become resilient and overcome the challenges. I cannot believe he would get me to this point and allow me to meet this man for it to be something I would have to sacrifice. I believe God is love - in meeting him, I thought this is what God says marriage and love should be - it says our spouses are like 'garments' for us and sent down for us so we can find 'tranquility' in them... to me even though I am Muslim and he is Sikh, he is a believer as we both believe in One God, love, humanity, compassion, seveh - charity work, kindess and in working hard and doing our best. I guess I am just afraid, even in 2023 of what people may say and esp becuase my family or community won't accept him if he doesn't convert - hell my family will still not accept him. I find myself in conflict within myself. Any advice will be appreciated. Please do not share any hatred or right wing views, neither my Prophet pbuh or Guru Nanak Ji ever bashed another faith or person, in fact that openly sat amongst everyone and preached love and guided people to their own goodness and consciousness. Please be respectful. Thanking you in advance. A seeking soul - Ayah. [/QUOTE]
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