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Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
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Vaar Gujari (517-526)
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Gurbani (527-536)
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Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
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Gurbani (595-634)
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Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
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ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
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Chhant (763-785)
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ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
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Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
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Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
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Gurbani (1319-23)
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Gurbani (1327-1341)
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Gurbani (1352-53)
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Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
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Short-hair Ban On Gurudwara Marriages
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<blockquote data-quote="thecoopes" data-source="post: 9848" data-attributes="member: 844"><p><strong>Re: "Short-hair" Ban on Gurdwara Marriages</strong></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Arial'">Dear friends, from an outside perspective at first I thought it appeared a little elitist to ban someone from getting married in a Gurdwara because they cut their hair. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">But then on reflection I considered that if a person viewed the act of being married in the Gurdwara as sacred he should also then show respect for the Sikh religious way of life and keep his hair uncut.</span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">If however the individual views the act of marring in the Gurdwara as merely a face saving duty and has no real love for what the Gurdwara and what the Sikh’s uncut hair stands for, then the individual is showing contempt for Sikhism and therefore for what reason would it be right to allow his marriage to take place? The standing of the Gurdwara would be just as a registry office!</span></span></span></p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Incidentally someone mentioned that it would be good to shun an individual who was not following his Sikh faith. This I think is wrong, you will not win back such a person but would more likely drive them away, into the arms of some other belief or group.</span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Far better to show kindness and talk of Sikhism to them in a non hostile but caring way, if the person is to be won back then they will be drawn by the warmth of real human love as expressed through the words of the Gurus I have seen quoted.</span></span></span></p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Best wishes </span></span></span></p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">John <img src="/images/smilies/whatsapp/wah.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":wah:" title="Wah :wah:" data-shortname=":wah:" /> </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="thecoopes, post: 9848, member: 844"] [b]Re: "Short-hair" Ban on Gurdwara Marriages[/b] [size=3][color=#000000][font=Arial]Dear friends, from an outside perspective at first I thought it appeared a little elitist to ban someone from getting married in a Gurdwara because they cut their hair. [/font][/color][/size] [font=Arial][size=3][color=#000000]But then on reflection I considered that if a person viewed the act of being married in the Gurdwara as sacred he should also then show respect for the Sikh religious way of life and keep his hair uncut.[/color][/size][/font] [font=Arial][size=3][color=#000000]If however the individual views the act of marring in the Gurdwara as merely a face saving duty and has no real love for what the Gurdwara and what the Sikh’s uncut hair stands for, then the individual is showing contempt for Sikhism and therefore for what reason would it be right to allow his marriage to take place? The standing of the Gurdwara would be just as a registry office![/color][/size][/font] [size=3][color=#000000][font=Arial] [/font][/color][/size] [font=Arial][size=3][color=#000000]Incidentally someone mentioned that it would be good to shun an individual who was not following his Sikh faith. This I think is wrong, you will not win back such a person but would more likely drive them away, into the arms of some other belief or group.[/color][/size][/font] [font=Arial][size=3][color=#000000]Far better to show kindness and talk of Sikhism to them in a non hostile but caring way, if the person is to be won back then they will be drawn by the warmth of real human love as expressed through the words of the Gurus I have seen quoted.[/color][/size][/font] [size=3][color=#000000][font=Arial] [/font][/color][/size] [font=Arial][size=3][color=#000000]Best wishes [/color][/size][/font] [size=3][color=#000000][font=Arial] [/font][/color][/size] [font=Arial][color=#000000]John :wah: [/color][/font] [/QUOTE]
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