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ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="chazSingh" data-source="post: 181353" data-attributes="member: 17409"><p>agree a little to what you're saying...</p><p> </p><p>but (and theres always a but) <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>a true martial artist..many of the original kung fu masters including bruce lee, would meditate for hours to reduce the effects of anger as anger removed their focus and strength. their own anger to them was more of an enemy than the other person. self control to them was the method to defeat the other person that was fueled by anger.</p><p> </p><p>by saying that you can also hit back in anger from time to time because maybe god is using you to teach them also about their anger...your mind is making excuses for you to use anger...thats how it works...<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>some people though can raise their voice imitating anger but have no anger inside...they are in complete control.</p><p> </p><p>when anger confronts anger...the ego of each indivual keeps getting fed and the cycle continues over and over. thoughts of "i can't let the other get away with this...they must know how much they're hurting me, they must know that they're a bad person" start pouring in.</p><p> </p><p>instead break the cycle (the miracle) by replying with love as much as possible...and it's amazing how the message gets across to the other person that they have an anger issue without you even raising you're voice, or breaking a sweat.</p><p> </p><p>I'm only saying this because of my life experiences...i've had death threats, hours and hours of verbal abuse to myself, family (over a period of a year)...threats to them also. whilst my mind was screaming 'how dare they threaten me and my family...get revenge!!' for some peculiar reason i took another approach...and over time you wouldnt believe the little 'miracles' in peoples behaviour and i never responded in anger once. It took a lot of effort...when i could feel anger and hate coming into my being, i would do a lot of simran to cool its effects...gosh i would even silently recite 'satnaam' and 'waheguru' and pray for the other person(s) when they were spitting in my face <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> ... who is there to hate...when the show is over, there is only one and only ever was one....waheguru </p><p> </p><p>in the words of Nanak</p><p>n<span style="color: #080088"><strong>aa</strong></span>nak parakh<span style="color: #080088"><strong>ae</strong></span> <span style="color: #080088"><strong>aa</strong></span>p ko th<span style="color: #080088"><strong>aa</strong></span> p<span style="color: #080088"><strong>aa</strong></span>rakh j<span style="color: #080088"><strong>aa</strong></span>n ||</p><p><em>O Nanak, if someone judges himself, only then is he known as a real judge.</em></p><p> </p><p><a href="http://www.sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=433" target="_blank">http://www.sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=433</a></p><p> </p><p>or for the less spiritual readers...</p><p> </p><p>in the words of michael jackson:</p><p> </p><p><strong>I'm Starting With The Man In</strong></p><p><strong>The Mirror</strong></p><p><strong>I'm Asking Him To Change</strong></p><p><strong>His Ways</strong></p><p><strong>And No Message Could Have</strong></p><p><strong>Been Any Clearer</strong></p><p><strong>If You Wanna Make The World</strong></p><p><strong>A Better Place</strong></p><p><strong>Take A Look At Yourself, And</strong></p><p><strong>Then Make A Change</strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="chazSingh, post: 181353, member: 17409"] agree a little to what you're saying... but (and theres always a but) :) a true martial artist..many of the original kung fu masters including bruce lee, would meditate for hours to reduce the effects of anger as anger removed their focus and strength. their own anger to them was more of an enemy than the other person. self control to them was the method to defeat the other person that was fueled by anger. by saying that you can also hit back in anger from time to time because maybe god is using you to teach them also about their anger...your mind is making excuses for you to use anger...thats how it works...:) some people though can raise their voice imitating anger but have no anger inside...they are in complete control. when anger confronts anger...the ego of each indivual keeps getting fed and the cycle continues over and over. thoughts of "i can't let the other get away with this...they must know how much they're hurting me, they must know that they're a bad person" start pouring in. instead break the cycle (the miracle) by replying with love as much as possible...and it's amazing how the message gets across to the other person that they have an anger issue without you even raising you're voice, or breaking a sweat. I'm only saying this because of my life experiences...i've had death threats, hours and hours of verbal abuse to myself, family (over a period of a year)...threats to them also. whilst my mind was screaming 'how dare they threaten me and my family...get revenge!!' for some peculiar reason i took another approach...and over time you wouldnt believe the little 'miracles' in peoples behaviour and i never responded in anger once. It took a lot of effort...when i could feel anger and hate coming into my being, i would do a lot of simran to cool its effects...gosh i would even silently recite 'satnaam' and 'waheguru' and pray for the other person(s) when they were spitting in my face :) ... who is there to hate...when the show is over, there is only one and only ever was one....waheguru in the words of Nanak n[COLOR=#080088][B]aa[/B][/COLOR]nak parakh[COLOR=#080088][B]ae[/B][/COLOR] [COLOR=#080088][B]aa[/B][/COLOR]p ko th[COLOR=#080088][B]aa[/B][/COLOR] p[COLOR=#080088][B]aa[/B][/COLOR]rakh j[COLOR=#080088][B]aa[/B][/COLOR]n || [I]O Nanak, if someone judges himself, only then is he known as a real judge.[/I] [URL]http://www.sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=433[/URL] or for the less spiritual readers... in the words of michael jackson: [B]I'm Starting With The Man In[/B] [B]The Mirror[/B] [B]I'm Asking Him To Change[/B] [B]His Ways[/B] [B]And No Message Could Have[/B] [B]Been Any Clearer[/B] [B]If You Wanna Make The World[/B] [B]A Better Place[/B] [B]Take A Look At Yourself, And[/B] [B]Then Make A Change[/B] [/QUOTE]
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