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ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
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Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
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Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
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<blockquote data-quote="Harry Haller" data-source="post: 210281" data-attributes="member: 14641"><p>These are normal feelings when growing up, uncertainty, jealousy, desire. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>combination of fantasising and desire, magical isn't it, all new and shiny, you get used to it so it doesn't rule, although in some it can take some time. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>There are those that fantasise and then make those fantasies happen, and there are those that fantasise, smile, and get on with their lives. You seen sensible but your heart is not very sensible, it is head and heart my young friend, the above shows you are largely still in control of your actions, although your thoughts are all over the place, that is fine, it is our actions that put us in jail, that bankrupt us, that ruin us, not our thoughts, use your head as a debating arena, a place to learn and grow, but be careful with your actions, they will damn you, or laud you, it is your choice. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>yes, love like hers exists, it is not like the love you know, it is the love between a man and a woman, which is expressed in many many different ways, there is sex, and there is love making, sex is something you may do whilst being tied up and whipped, there is many different types of sex, from a plain bunk up to full blown orgies, love making, however is different, love making is a spiritual journey with your partner, its different, it takes time, it takes knowing each other, its a journey, unlike plain sex which can be had for £10 behind a skip. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I feel for you, you have an innocence about you that is touching, it is a remnant of your being a child, now time to grow up, your handling this like a needy puppy, like one who wants something so much, yet fears it, like a moth, you need to grow up thats all, and all this, is growing up, all these feelings, all these desires, how you handle them, how you deal with them, it forms your character, who you are, its hard, you may feel torn, but at the end of the day, you will be who you are, you are learning about yourself, about you, learn and grow. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Oh don't worry about the god will punish you for your sins routine, you will hear that often as you grow up, and stop burning, set yourself free, its a journey, your doing fine</p><p></p><p></p><p>you fell in love, your still in love, she represents everything that you possibly yearn, coming from a good family has responsibilities, and its hard sometimes, easy to be free, to love who you want, when you want, to do what you want, without guilt, without thinking, to be a fool in love, to put love above everything, family, friends, health, even the self, but there is a cost, and the cost is your soul, who you are, who you could be, its up to you, how far do you wish to go down that road, far enough that you end up a drug addled bloated unhealthy 50 year old, living on your own, eating crackers for dinner, because one road leads to another, and before you know it, your pushing boundaries you did not even know existed, keep hold of your senses, trust your head, don't be so dramatic, but know where paths lead before you wish you had stepped on them. </p><p></p><p>btw, this is not even love, its simple lust, something you are going to have to learn to control if you wish to make it. </p><p></p><p>Good luck</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harry Haller, post: 210281, member: 14641"] These are normal feelings when growing up, uncertainty, jealousy, desire. combination of fantasising and desire, magical isn't it, all new and shiny, you get used to it so it doesn't rule, although in some it can take some time. There are those that fantasise and then make those fantasies happen, and there are those that fantasise, smile, and get on with their lives. You seen sensible but your heart is not very sensible, it is head and heart my young friend, the above shows you are largely still in control of your actions, although your thoughts are all over the place, that is fine, it is our actions that put us in jail, that bankrupt us, that ruin us, not our thoughts, use your head as a debating arena, a place to learn and grow, but be careful with your actions, they will damn you, or laud you, it is your choice. yes, love like hers exists, it is not like the love you know, it is the love between a man and a woman, which is expressed in many many different ways, there is sex, and there is love making, sex is something you may do whilst being tied up and whipped, there is many different types of sex, from a plain bunk up to full blown orgies, love making, however is different, love making is a spiritual journey with your partner, its different, it takes time, it takes knowing each other, its a journey, unlike plain sex which can be had for £10 behind a skip. I feel for you, you have an innocence about you that is touching, it is a remnant of your being a child, now time to grow up, your handling this like a needy puppy, like one who wants something so much, yet fears it, like a moth, you need to grow up thats all, and all this, is growing up, all these feelings, all these desires, how you handle them, how you deal with them, it forms your character, who you are, its hard, you may feel torn, but at the end of the day, you will be who you are, you are learning about yourself, about you, learn and grow. Oh don't worry about the god will punish you for your sins routine, you will hear that often as you grow up, and stop burning, set yourself free, its a journey, your doing fine you fell in love, your still in love, she represents everything that you possibly yearn, coming from a good family has responsibilities, and its hard sometimes, easy to be free, to love who you want, when you want, to do what you want, without guilt, without thinking, to be a fool in love, to put love above everything, family, friends, health, even the self, but there is a cost, and the cost is your soul, who you are, who you could be, its up to you, how far do you wish to go down that road, far enough that you end up a drug addled bloated unhealthy 50 year old, living on your own, eating crackers for dinner, because one road leads to another, and before you know it, your pushing boundaries you did not even know existed, keep hold of your senses, trust your head, don't be so dramatic, but know where paths lead before you wish you had stepped on them. btw, this is not even love, its simple lust, something you are going to have to learn to control if you wish to make it. Good luck [/QUOTE]
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