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<blockquote data-quote="TKaurG" data-source="post: 141633" data-attributes="member: 14653"><p>i agree that was very inspiring</p><p>to answer rbamrah ji, i think that situations where others in a sense disappoint us take place as way of Vaheguru showing us that when our life comes to an end, none of these people will be with us, and this is repeated a lot in gurbani.</p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'AnmolUniPr'"><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸੰਗ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਸੰਗ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਖਾ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਸਖਾ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਭਿ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਸਭਿ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਤਜਿ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਤਜਿ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਗਏ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਗਏ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕੋਊ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਕੋਊ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਨ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨਿਬਹਿਓ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਨਿਬਹਿਓ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਾਥਿ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਸਾਥਿ</span></a></span><span style="font-family: 'Mangal'">॥</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">My associates and companions have all deserted me; no one remains with me.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'AnmolUniPr'"><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਹੁ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਕਹੁ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨਾਨਕ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਨਾਨਕ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਇਹ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਇਹ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਬਿਪਤਿ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਬਿਪਤਿ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਮੈ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਮੈ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਟੇਕ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਟੇਕ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਏਕ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਏਕ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਰਘੁਨਾਥ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਰਘੁਨਾਥ</span></a></span><span style="font-family: 'Mangal'">॥</span><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">੫੫॥</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Says Nanak, in this tragedy, the Lord alone is my Support. ||55||</span></p><p> </p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Therefore, it is when we face the ignorance of others (in general..not to offend your family), that we see why guru ji told us to say away from moh.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Also, i think if you show them that their anger at your decision is only bringing about a negative of mind in them, they are only harming themselves, they will maybe see that your religion/spirituality is your own and what they say or do will not change that.</span></p><p> </p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">However, i can see how it can be difficult because you love them, but if you respect them, sooner or later they will see that they must do the same because they will not get anything positive out of arguing</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"><span style="font-family: 'AnmolUniPr'"><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਹਤ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਕਹਤ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਬੀਰ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਕਬੀਰ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਪੰਚ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਪੰਚ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕੋ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਕੋ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਝਗਰਾ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਝਗਰਾ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਝਗਰਤ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਝਗਰਤ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਜਨਮੁ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਜਨਮੁ</span></a> <a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਗਵਾਇਆ" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Raavi'">ਗਵਾਇਆ</span></a></span><span style="font-family: 'Mangal'">॥</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"><span style="font-family: 'Mangal'">Kahat kabeer panch ko jhagra jhagrat janam gevaaeyaa.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Says Kabeer, the five passions argue with me, and in these arguments, my life is wasting away.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Bhul chuk maaf and Good Luck, </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'">Gurfateh</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Tahoma'"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TKaurG, post: 141633, member: 14653"] i agree that was very inspiring to answer rbamrah ji, i think that situations where others in a sense disappoint us take place as way of Vaheguru showing us that when our life comes to an end, none of these people will be with us, and this is repeated a lot in gurbani. [FONT=AnmolUniPr][URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸੰਗ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਸੰਗ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਖਾ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਸਖਾ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਭਿ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਸਭਿ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਤਜਿ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਤਜਿ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਗਏ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਗਏ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕੋਊ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਕੋਊ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਨ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨਿਬਹਿਓ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਨਿਬਹਿਓ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਸਾਥਿ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਸਾਥਿ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL][/FONT][FONT=Mangal]॥[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]My associates and companions have all deserted me; no one remains with me.[/FONT] [FONT=AnmolUniPr][URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਹੁ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਕਹੁ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਨਾਨਕ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਨਾਨਕ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਇਹ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਇਹ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਬਿਪਤਿ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਬਿਪਤਿ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਮੈ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਮੈ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਟੇਕ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਟੇਕ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਏਕ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਏਕ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਰਘੁਨਾਥ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਰਘੁਨਾਥ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL][/FONT][FONT=Mangal]॥[/FONT][FONT=Raavi]੫੫॥[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Says Nanak, in this tragedy, the Lord alone is my Support. ||55||[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma][/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Therefore, it is when we face the ignorance of others (in general..not to offend your family), that we see why guru ji told us to say away from moh.[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Also, i think if you show them that their anger at your decision is only bringing about a negative of mind in them, they are only harming themselves, they will maybe see that your religion/spirituality is your own and what they say or do will not change that.[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma][/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]However, i can see how it can be difficult because you love them, but if you respect them, sooner or later they will see that they must do the same because they will not get anything positive out of arguing[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma][FONT=AnmolUniPr][URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਹਤ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਕਹਤ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕਬੀਰ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਕਬੀਰ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਪੰਚ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਪੰਚ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਕੋ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਕੋ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਝਗਰਾ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਝਗਰਾ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਝਗਰਤ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਝਗਰਤ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਜਨਮੁ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਜਨਮੁ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL] [URL="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=ਗਵਾਇਆ"][COLOR=windowtext][FONT=Raavi]ਗਵਾਇਆ[/FONT][/COLOR][/URL][/FONT][FONT=Mangal]॥[/FONT] [FONT=Mangal]Kahat kabeer panch ko jhagra jhagrat janam gevaaeyaa.[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Says Kabeer, the five passions argue with me, and in these arguments, my life is wasting away.[/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Bhul chuk maaf and Good Luck, [/FONT] [FONT=Tahoma]Gurfateh[/FONT] [/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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