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<blockquote data-quote="Scott.D" data-source="post: 133524" data-attributes="member: 13180"><p><strong>Re: White bloke in a relationship with a Sikh girl, without her family knowing</strong></p><p></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Good evening all.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">My apologies with replying so late.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Can I just thank everyone for their input in this situation.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">I think I can do a joint answer for part of both of your Comments Kanwardeep Singh & Tejwant Singh, with regards to potential consequences of my gf's actions with her parents/family</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She has had relationships before me, when she’s been at University, ranging from 4 months, to over a year and all of them she has had to say she’s going to have to break up with them , due the situation with her family.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">It’s been about two years since she's been in a relationship, that’s when she met me.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She has told me that she does feel different about me compared to the others, and in some certain respects that I'm giving her the courage to be able to tell her parents about us.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">To which I'm not overly happy about because this is such a big decision for her, but it should be her choice alone and not influenced by me.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">As you've said Kanwardeep, her family may disown her, she has mentioned that possibility, but she's said to me, that she just wouldn't be able to cope with the arranged marriage.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">I think it’s because of this that she is taking her time and thinking it through properly before any rash decisions are made, which is a good thing, since I don't want her regret it and then perhaps resent me because of the consequences with her family.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Also I'd just like to mention, that it is just her immediate family who are like this, one of her cousins is in actual fact married to a white man, and according my gf, her parents were angry to begin with not because he was white or any of things I said in above about myself and my gf, but more due to the fact she just announced to them that they were getting married right out of the blue.</span></span></p><p> </p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">In answer to you set questions Tejwant.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">1. The main reason why she isn't working is due to her graduating just as the recession hit us in the UK, and the industry she wants to work in has been hit quite badly.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She has done much internship as well, to try and get more experience so she can put it in her CV to make her more employable, but is still finding it quite tough.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">2. I believe my own job can support both of us, however having children would make it difficult, but it could be possible (there is no such thing as you can't do something in my mind, just different routes you have to take to get there)</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">That said though she has always told me she wants to work, and not just be a sit at home wife, making the tea & popping out the babies as she put, which is fine by me I’ve always wanted a 50/50 relationship, so I can glad we have the same views on that.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">3. What do you mean by value system, are you referring to Morals and ethics, if so yes our Morals and ethics are very similar, I think that’s one of the reasons why we do so well as a couple.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">4. Yes both her & myself drink, although not excessively, especially myself.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"> I'm going to sound quite odd now, but I don't like to drink much because it reduces your testosterone levels, which impacts on my exercise and doing my sports,</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">5. Her sister drinks, but I’m not sure about her mum, dad & brother, I do know that most of her extended family do drink as well.</span></span></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Thanks again for spending the time to read my post and also to reply to it.</p><p> </p><p>Regards.</p><p> </p><p>Scott.D</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scott.D, post: 133524, member: 13180"] [b]Re: White bloke in a relationship with a Sikh girl, without her family knowing[/b] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Good evening all.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]My apologies with replying so late.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Can I just thank everyone for their input in this situation.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I think I can do a joint answer for part of both of your Comments Kanwardeep Singh & Tejwant Singh, with regards to potential consequences of my gf's actions with her parents/family[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She has had relationships before me, when she’s been at University, ranging from 4 months, to over a year and all of them she has had to say she’s going to have to break up with them , due the situation with her family.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]It’s been about two years since she's been in a relationship, that’s when she met me.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She has told me that she does feel different about me compared to the others, and in some certain respects that I'm giving her the courage to be able to tell her parents about us.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]To which I'm not overly happy about because this is such a big decision for her, but it should be her choice alone and not influenced by me.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]As you've said Kanwardeep, her family may disown her, she has mentioned that possibility, but she's said to me, that she just wouldn't be able to cope with the arranged marriage.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I think it’s because of this that she is taking her time and thinking it through properly before any rash decisions are made, which is a good thing, since I don't want her regret it and then perhaps resent me because of the consequences with her family.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Also I'd just like to mention, that it is just her immediate family who are like this, one of her cousins is in actual fact married to a white man, and according my gf, her parents were angry to begin with not because he was white or any of things I said in above about myself and my gf, but more due to the fact she just announced to them that they were getting married right out of the blue.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]In answer to you set questions Tejwant.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]1. The main reason why she isn't working is due to her graduating just as the recession hit us in the UK, and the industry she wants to work in has been hit quite badly.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She has done much internship as well, to try and get more experience so she can put it in her CV to make her more employable, but is still finding it quite tough.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]2. I believe my own job can support both of us, however having children would make it difficult, but it could be possible (there is no such thing as you can't do something in my mind, just different routes you have to take to get there)[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]That said though she has always told me she wants to work, and not just be a sit at home wife, making the tea & popping out the babies as she put, which is fine by me I’ve always wanted a 50/50 relationship, so I can glad we have the same views on that.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]3. What do you mean by value system, are you referring to Morals and ethics, if so yes our Morals and ethics are very similar, I think that’s one of the reasons why we do so well as a couple.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]4. Yes both her & myself drink, although not excessively, especially myself.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] I'm going to sound quite odd now, but I don't like to drink much because it reduces your testosterone levels, which impacts on my exercise and doing my sports,[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]5. Her sister drinks, but I’m not sure about her mum, dad & brother, I do know that most of her extended family do drink as well.[/FONT][/COLOR] Thanks again for spending the time to read my post and also to reply to it. Regards. Scott.D [/QUOTE]
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