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<blockquote data-quote="seeker3k" data-source="post: 146510" data-attributes="member: 6459"><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Dear confused,</span></span></p><p><?"urn:<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite9" alt=":eek:" title="Eek! :eek:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":eek:" />ffice<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite9" alt=":eek:" title="Eek! :eek:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":eek:" />ffice" /><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I understand your hurt and no one is helping you. I can give you the problem Sikhism has but this is not the time for that. I will share my part of my life with you. I hope it may help you to understand and get courage to go peacefully in your life.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I am male live in <?xml::<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite9" alt=":eek:" title="Eek! :eek:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":eek:" />ffice:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />lace w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> close to 70 year old. I was born in Jatt Sikh family. I was also very narrow minded in my youth. I use to think Sikhism the best religion in the world.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">When I was 20 I caught my sister with boy in his car. I was very anger at her. At home parent and me hade heated discussion about what she did. I was ready to leave home n live in other city. Why we boy’s n men’s think that way? It is the talk the boys do describing his affair with girl. Nothing goes in the car but it is the juicy stories that bother family. IN <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />lace w:st="on">UK</st1:country-region> most of my friends were Punjabi and mostly were jatts too. So you can think what was the state of my mind was then.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> In my late 20’s I came to <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />lace w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> the people were non jatt and non Indian. Because I was by my self in <st1<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />lace w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> I use to go out with white friends from work or meet them at bar.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">There a boy comes with his girl friend and his sister brings her bf to that bar. Every one dance with others. I was surprised that sister was kissing her bf in front of brother. Not only that she would dance with other boys in the bar and kiss them too. That made me think how my thinking was back word. Later on when I went back to <st1<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />lace w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">UK</st1:country-region> I apologized to my sister of my behavior.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">You have great talents singing and dancing. I wish I could have those talents.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">You have to explore the possibility of your talents to go to the top. People here condemning the bollywood dance. Who watch this bugler dance? Who made this dance song the #1 (muni ho gai badnam)? They don’t even know what is dance. We men have dirty mind. We men can not think that dance can be a real talent. All we think if girl dance she must be loose woman. We men can not think otherwise.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I am not trying to tell you what to do or what not to do. What you should do find your self. You can find it in SGGS but I am sorry to say you will not find any thing in Punjabi culture. Don’t walk on paved roods make your own road. You need to get economically strong. If you still be dependent on men you will not find you’re self.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">This is man’s world. Most of the religions were invented by man. There is no place for woman. SORRY. It is good thing you are not born in Islam.</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">All then fathers brothers boy friends should give this girl moral support</span></span></p><p><o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />> </o<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Hate begets hate. Don’ try to become like men, be a creative women and show us the better way </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seeker3k, post: 146510, member: 6459"] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Dear confused,[/SIZE][/FONT] <?"urn::office:office" /><o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I understand your hurt and no one is helping you. I can give you the problem Sikhism has but this is not the time for that. I will share my part of my life with you. I hope it may help you to understand and get courage to go peacefully in your life.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I am male live in <?xml:::office:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> close to 70 year old. I was born in Jatt Sikh family. I was also very narrow minded in my youth. I use to think Sikhism the best religion in the world.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]When I was 20 I caught my sister with boy in his car. I was very anger at her. At home parent and me hade heated discussion about what she did. I was ready to leave home n live in other city. Why we boy’s n men’s think that way? It is the talk the boys do describing his affair with girl. Nothing goes in the car but it is the juicy stories that bother family. IN <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">UK</st1:country-region> most of my friends were Punjabi and mostly were jatts too. So you can think what was the state of my mind was then.[/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] In my late 20’s I came to <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> the people were non jatt and non Indian. Because I was by my self in <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">Canada</st1:country-region> I use to go out with white friends from work or meet them at bar.[/FONT][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]There a boy comes with his girl friend and his sister brings her bf to that bar. Every one dance with others. I was surprised that sister was kissing her bf in front of brother. Not only that she would dance with other boys in the bar and kiss them too. That made me think how my thinking was back word. Later on when I went back to <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:country-region w:st="on">UK</st1:country-region> I apologized to my sister of my behavior.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]You have great talents singing and dancing. I wish I could have those talents.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]You have to explore the possibility of your talents to go to the top. People here condemning the bollywood dance. Who watch this bugler dance? Who made this dance song the #1 (muni ho gai badnam)? They don’t even know what is dance. We men have dirty mind. We men can not think that dance can be a real talent. All we think if girl dance she must be loose woman. We men can not think otherwise.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I am not trying to tell you what to do or what not to do. What you should do find your self. You can find it in SGGS but I am sorry to say you will not find any thing in Punjabi culture. Don’t walk on paved roods make your own road. You need to get economically strong. If you still be dependent on men you will not find you’re self.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]This is man’s world. Most of the religions were invented by man. There is no place for woman. SORRY. It is good thing you are not born in Islam.[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]All then fathers brothers boy friends should give this girl moral support[/SIZE][/FONT] <o:p>[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT]</o:p> [SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]Hate begets hate. Don’ try to become like men, be a creative women and show us the better way [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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