This is how mob mentality works. People create an image of how a person should look in their mind, fall for it and then pull in others.
Sometimes it can take a life (or many):
As a Sikh, you will be different. And that quality will pull you...
The difference will always be there. Guru Gobind Singh passed Guru gaddi to Guru Granth Sahib ji. Any other text is a Volume collected after His death. A diamond can only shine the light of the sun. In darkness it is lost in itself.
That is the nature of things. We need to differentiate to understand. We need to know one is a circle and maybe other is a triangle. But that doesn't make us love one and hate the other. Kam Krodh Lobh Moh Ahankar makes us want more than what we deserve or what nature has allotted to us. And...
fun/hobby? i don't know. i don't meditate for that. i think this shabad explains it more:
ਆਵਹੁ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਸਹੇਲੀਹੋ ਸਚੜਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਲਏਹਾਂ ॥
aavahu milahu saheleeho sachaRaa naam lehaa(n) ||
Come, O my companions - let us meet together and dwell upon the True Name.
ਰੋਵਹ ਬਿਰਹਾ ਤਨ ਕਾ ਆਪਣਾ ਸਾਹਿਬੁ ਸੰਮ੍ਹਾਲੇਹਾਂ ॥...
Have you watched the movie Interstellar? That is as bleak as it gets. Maybe i will make my children astronauts.
At one point in time, sun will give up, engulf earth, blaze out and die.
Honi nu hunn kaun taal sakda ae