I don't know this sounds very tough. The first thing that came to mind is just talk to them and start crying alot. Maybe they will see that they are hurting you so much they will change. I hope more people have better ideas. This is sad because Guru Nanak would have been angry at your parents...
Maybe in the beginning just enjoy youtube kirtan/shabad for fun. Don't even think about religion, just listen to maybe Bhai Harjinder Singh shabad for enjoyment and sing along. Good luck in your journey!
Sar Sri Akal Ji,
I agree with what you posted. If they are superficial then it is not a good match. Sometimes the woman is made miserable in Sikh marriages if the family is like that. Make sure you have a good feeling when you are around both the family and the future husband and you will be...
Sat Sri Akal Ji,
I think Guru says the person does not have power to speak or not speak, to do or not to do. It is Raam who has the power. Free will means different things to different people, so whether we have free will depend on what a culture thinks free will is. I think the Guru says that...
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