What do Sikh Men Look for in Women?

Astroboy · #1 (**permalink**) 23-Oct-2009, 23:59 PM

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What women want is a challenge, what women want is a man they can't control because that's where your rating will be high.
So have some backbone guys and keep your turbans on wherever you go.

How to Become an Alpha Male

How to Build Unstoppable Confidence When Talking to Women

I almost feel I'm talking to the wind because no guy is owning up that he lacks the confidence. Believe me guys, I've been there. I assumed alot of things because during my time, it was arranged marriage. So I didn't have to learn all these things. So I guess your folks didn't teach you these things either.

But that does not mean, you're NOT facing the problem by ignoring it. See, we Sardars (with Turbans) have everything going for us, but we don't value it - why ? Because we do not know we're sitting on a goldmine. Instead, we are giving up our royal rights for a can of beer and women with a life style.

Yogi Bhajan dealt with women with life styles and transformed them to Khalsa. Question to ask - why did they give up their life style ? Wasn't it full of fun and glamour?

It would be great to know!!

BhagatSingh · #2 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 04:46 AM

I guess I looking for a woman who can deal with my "devil's advocate" type attitude towards everything.

That filters out most women on the planet...

Seriously, what should a guy be looking for in a girl, besides beauty?
Intelligence is one, what else?

Astroboy · #3 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 18:52 PM

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I think you are right about confidence in short supply, NamJap ji.

I prefer Narayanjot Kaur Ji to clarify why she feels men's confidence is in short supply.

Astroboy · #4 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 18:56 PM

My question for Sikh gentlemen is

What do you look for in a woman who is your:-
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/relationships/27204-what-do-sikh-men-look-women.html

a. girlfriend, or fiancee
b. wife
c. general friend

Narayanjot Kaur · #5 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 19:48 PM

NamJap ji

If I do that then I go off topic.

AusDesi · #6 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 20:49 PM

At different stages of life you look for different things and once you've been burnt by one type i guess you will look for something else.

In my case the general attributes will be:
a) Positivity
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=27204
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=27204
b) Leadership
c) Ambition

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d) Most Important - She tells stories like - What, When and How instead of stitching together a millions different stories.

e) There has to be a bit of a physical attraction at the start especially.

Astroboy · #7 (**permalink**) 24-Oct-2009, 21:55 PM

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e) There has to be a bit of a physical attraction at the start especially.

Yes, that's a must for men in general.

Ausdesi Ji,

does physical attraction mean beauty or how she holds herself. What exactly ?

BhagatSingh · #8 (**permalink**) 27-Oct-2009, 08:45 AM

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In my case the general attributes will be:
a) Positivity
b) Leadership
c) Ambition

I like these. Do you not look for intelligence?

Astroboy · #9 (**permalink**) 27-Oct-2009, 11:16 AM

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d) Most Important - She tells stories like - What, When and How instead of stitching together a millions different stories.

Am I thinking what you are? Women in general will stitch, mend, sow, and appreciate a good listener. But little do they know that such stories which they tell are boring to men. Because the men get all excited when there is an emergency for action. That's why a woman needs to explain the when, how, and what clearly to a man.

On the other hand, a woman feels lighter when she has spoken out her mind. If you guys feel that she's putting you into a corner to whack you left and right and render you helpless, then it's time to change your thinking pattern. We men, need to understand that women don't think like men. Spoken words by men have a different meaning for women.

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