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Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
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Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
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ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
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Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
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Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="lotus lion" data-source="post: 83114" data-attributes="member: 5620"><p><strong>Re: Why Don't Sikh Girls Want To Marry Sikh Guys? Solution.</strong></p><p></p><p>Hi SSKohli,</p><p> </p><p>Given the fact that i am one of people on this thread who is advising what can be done, i can only come to the conclusion that the 'Hunk' aspect has to some degree been directed towards myself. As a result, i wish to respond.</p><p> </p><p>For the record, as discussed earlier, I am not a 'hunk'. I am a 5ft 7 Guy who looks after himself and developed all aspects of my interaction with women on a Non-plutonic level. If i can do it, I do not see why anyone else can.</p><p> </p><p>Feeling sorry for yourself just does not cut it i am afraid. People pick up on it and do not wish to associate and ultimately steer clear which only exasperates the situation further. A little blunt i know but we all need a little tough love sometimes.</p><p> </p><p>Let us take another example that practically everyone can associate with, Money.</p><p> </p><p>If I had a small amount of money and was bemoaning that there is nothing i can do about it, the odds are stacked against me etc..., what would one say?</p><p> </p><p>Figure out how to make money, Develop your financial Intelligence by imersing yourself in the topic, hang round with people who are financially intelligent, read books, get knowledged up, practice, and after x duration you will be so clued up, money will come to you. There is nothing wrong with it at all.</p><p> </p><p>I hope you can see what i am getting at here.</p><p> </p><p>"I was the nerdy, happy go lucky spiritual oriented person, who didn't think that way." </p><p> </p><p>Perhaps this is where the problem lies. Your self perception? As far as i am aware, Women are not really going to be into that.</p><p> </p><p>Someone once said to me that you need to earn the right to be yourself and my experiences have taught me that that is true. </p><p>To a degree i was like this, but understand that this is only one aspect to yourself. When you fill out the rest, then you can show this aspect of yourself.</p><p> </p><p>As said before, Women want a Man.(not to say you are not) But then What is a Man? for me it boils down to possessing qualities such as Self control, Respect, Dominance, Direction, Humour (Not dorky) and Ambition to name but a few.</p><p> </p><p>Self control can also branch out into the physical, so having a toned body where you are not overtly large and dress sharply make a big difference.</p><p> </p><p>Please look at our forefathers too. For me, they were the perfect embodiment of Sikhi. What can you see in them that we are lacking today?</p><p> </p><p>Learning about these things can make a massive difference.</p><p> </p><p>My best regards,</p><p> </p><p>Lotus</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lotus lion, post: 83114, member: 5620"] [b]Re: Why Don't Sikh Girls Want To Marry Sikh Guys? Solution.[/b] Hi SSKohli, Given the fact that i am one of people on this thread who is advising what can be done, i can only come to the conclusion that the 'Hunk' aspect has to some degree been directed towards myself. As a result, i wish to respond. For the record, as discussed earlier, I am not a 'hunk'. I am a 5ft 7 Guy who looks after himself and developed all aspects of my interaction with women on a Non-plutonic level. If i can do it, I do not see why anyone else can. Feeling sorry for yourself just does not cut it i am afraid. People pick up on it and do not wish to associate and ultimately steer clear which only exasperates the situation further. A little blunt i know but we all need a little tough love sometimes. Let us take another example that practically everyone can associate with, Money. If I had a small amount of money and was bemoaning that there is nothing i can do about it, the odds are stacked against me etc..., what would one say? Figure out how to make money, Develop your financial Intelligence by imersing yourself in the topic, hang round with people who are financially intelligent, read books, get knowledged up, practice, and after x duration you will be so clued up, money will come to you. There is nothing wrong with it at all. I hope you can see what i am getting at here. "I was the nerdy, happy go lucky spiritual oriented person, who didn't think that way." Perhaps this is where the problem lies. Your self perception? As far as i am aware, Women are not really going to be into that. Someone once said to me that you need to earn the right to be yourself and my experiences have taught me that that is true. To a degree i was like this, but understand that this is only one aspect to yourself. When you fill out the rest, then you can show this aspect of yourself. As said before, Women want a Man.(not to say you are not) But then What is a Man? for me it boils down to possessing qualities such as Self control, Respect, Dominance, Direction, Humour (Not dorky) and Ambition to name but a few. Self control can also branch out into the physical, so having a toned body where you are not overtly large and dress sharply make a big difference. Please look at our forefathers too. For me, they were the perfect embodiment of Sikhi. What can you see in them that we are lacking today? Learning about these things can make a massive difference. My best regards, Lotus [/QUOTE]
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