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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="dakkuSingh" data-source="post: 169916" data-attributes="member: 18011"><p>Hi all,</p><p> As I m from delhi. I can say about, What I have seen,observed and experienced. </p><p>Below I think are the reason for sikh boy facing problem finding spouse.</p><p> </p><p>1) Sikh religion has shocking bad boys to girl sex ratio among all religion. </p><p>2) no gud role model. All Sikh girl in prominence in India don't marry a turban wearing sikh boy.</p><p>All sikh character in movie are played by non sikh's. If a movie has a sikh as a main character, they only keep their hair till childhood. When they grow old either they cut their hair or oscillate between turban and clean shaved. </p><p>3) Even ardent follower of sikh religion don't what sikh is. Is it a religion or not? Does it allow alcohol and meat? Does keeping 5 K make you a sikh?</p><p>4) Sikh are distributed as a community. They don't interact with each other. Young Sikh boys and girls don't interact much. You will hardly find turban wearing people in gurudwara. I thrice counted the number of turban wearing people and non turban wearing people sitting in bangla sahib gurudwara. And only once i found turban wearing sikh outnumbering non turban wearing people.</p><p>5) Most of the sikh are from middle class. They lost majority of their riches or wealth during division of punjab. </p><p>6) Whether anyone accepts it or not but for every serious relationship starts with physical attraction, all other issue behaviors,mannerism comes later. </p><p>7) Non sikh girl don't marry sikh boy, except if they are exceptional in their field. Few non sikh girl marry sikh boys.</p><p>8) And what I have seen, many sikh girl are marring baniya or non sikh rich punjabi boys. Who have rich daddy. And boy themselves are nothing special and many are not even graduate. </p><p>9) Sikh make two much fuss about hair. Managing long hair is not easy and wearing a turban for 10-12 hr a day in scorching heat of delhi is simply maddening.And it equally difficult for a girl following sikh religion and not cutting her body hair. I simply cant imagine how much difficult it will be for her .</p><p>10) I have been to two sikh institute I have seen sikh are fighting among themselves, disregarding the impression it shows on the other. Sikh are not setting good examples.</p><p>11) Given a choice only few sikh girls will marry a turban wearing sikh by choice. </p><p>12) if a sikh girl marry a hindu boy of his choice many people will say it her choice. And if a sikh boy cut his hair, hell will break. No one will speak to him. Doesnt he have a right to exercise his choice to follow a religion or not follow?</p><p></p><p>I will post solution in next post. Its late here in India. </p><p>- Mr V.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dakkuSingh, post: 169916, member: 18011"] Hi all, As I m from delhi. I can say about, What I have seen,observed and experienced. Below I think are the reason for sikh boy facing problem finding spouse. 1) Sikh religion has shocking bad boys to girl sex ratio among all religion. 2) no gud role model. All Sikh girl in prominence in India don't marry a turban wearing sikh boy. All sikh character in movie are played by non sikh's. If a movie has a sikh as a main character, they only keep their hair till childhood. When they grow old either they cut their hair or oscillate between turban and clean shaved. 3) Even ardent follower of sikh religion don't what sikh is. Is it a religion or not? Does it allow alcohol and meat? Does keeping 5 K make you a sikh? 4) Sikh are distributed as a community. They don't interact with each other. Young Sikh boys and girls don't interact much. You will hardly find turban wearing people in gurudwara. I thrice counted the number of turban wearing people and non turban wearing people sitting in bangla sahib gurudwara. And only once i found turban wearing sikh outnumbering non turban wearing people. 5) Most of the sikh are from middle class. They lost majority of their riches or wealth during division of punjab. 6) Whether anyone accepts it or not but for every serious relationship starts with physical attraction, all other issue behaviors,mannerism comes later. 7) Non sikh girl don't marry sikh boy, except if they are exceptional in their field. Few non sikh girl marry sikh boys. 8) And what I have seen, many sikh girl are marring baniya or non sikh rich punjabi boys. Who have rich daddy. And boy themselves are nothing special and many are not even graduate. 9) Sikh make two much fuss about hair. Managing long hair is not easy and wearing a turban for 10-12 hr a day in scorching heat of delhi is simply maddening.And it equally difficult for a girl following sikh religion and not cutting her body hair. I simply cant imagine how much difficult it will be for her . 10) I have been to two sikh institute I have seen sikh are fighting among themselves, disregarding the impression it shows on the other. Sikh are not setting good examples. 11) Given a choice only few sikh girls will marry a turban wearing sikh by choice. 12) if a sikh girl marry a hindu boy of his choice many people will say it her choice. And if a sikh boy cut his hair, hell will break. No one will speak to him. Doesnt he have a right to exercise his choice to follow a religion or not follow? I will post solution in next post. Its late here in India. - Mr V. [/QUOTE]
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