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<blockquote data-quote="ActsOfGod" data-source="post: 205350" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>I recently heard some music by the Australian band "The Beards". You should check out their stuff on youtube, it's hilarious and amazing. These guys are really, really, really into their beards. ALL their songs are about beards. Their music happens to be quite good too. In any case, after listening to two of their albums, I am completely brainwashed and can't look at anyone the same way again. Whenever I look around and see a "clean-shaven" man, I don't see a man at all. I see a little boy, certainly not a man. My mind starts wondering if they have problem growing a beard, or whether they just aren't manly enough to handle one. "With great beard, comes great responsibility", as they say. When I see a man with a full, thick beard, my mind says "Now THERE is a real MAN!" It's gotten to the point where it's a little awkward talking to the beardless wonders. Perhaps the brainwashing has gone too far. But how can I respect a beardless man? I mean, he could at the very least sport a five o'clock shadow....to at least give the ILLUSION of a beard, even if he doesn't have a REAL beard. At least that's somewhat more respectable than having a complete smooth-as-a-babys-bottom face. Otherwise, it's just awkward.</p><p></p><p>If this is the effect on a male, once can only imagine what's going on in the ladies' minds.</p><p></p><p>All tongue-in-cheek aside, do you really want your kids thinking this of you:</p><p></p><p>[MEDIA=youtube]RmFnarFSj_U[/MEDIA]</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I don't say this often, but you are completely and totally wrong. Your BS theory of straight lines and symmetry is some kind of metrosexual brainwashing. Consider this: throughout human history, the male with the beard was considered virile, strong, sexually attractive and a desirable mate and partner for life. I really won't go into all the details here, but you can do your own research and find out. The beard was considered a symbol of fertility and virility. When they wanted to humiliate denigrate a man, they would shave off his beard. I guess eunuchs were beardless, what does that tell you?</p><p></p><p>Fashions change, but human sexuality does not. Women find a man with a beard more sexually attractive, their perception is that he is stronger, wiser, and more masculine then his clean-shaven counterparts. Men with beards are seen as rugged, wise, potent, better lovers, and the best leaders. Men with beards were the real warriors and women swooned to them.</p><p></p><p>When it comes down to what moves a woman at her core (forget about all the fashion nonsense), she will fall for a man with a beard because of his presence and vitality. This is true of any woman, not just of a particular culture or society.</p><p></p><p>As far as you are concerned, though, you will not get the respect of any woman. Because you are willing to divest yourself or your very identity just so you can get into a females panties. A man who is willing to throw away everything that defines him is NOT attractive to females. Don't believe me, go ahead and ask around. Women love a man who takes a stand for what he believes in, who has a direction and purpose in life, who is willing to go against the tide in order to stick to his principles, and who will fight and die to protect them. Alas, that man is not you. You just want to get some booty, which I suppose is ok, you're listening to the Lust within you. (If it's any consolation, you're not alone, there are millions upon millions of sort-of-men just like you)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Um.....yea</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Oooooooookay....</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Who's stopping you? Why do you say "not being able to"? What is that nonsense? If you're a real man, you make your own decisions! This is a seriously UNattractive trait, dude. You won't score any points with the ladies on that one.</p><p></p><p>Well Mr. Pink Shirt Big Hat, I think it's obvious, as Harry ji jhas stated, that what you really want is to get laid, and you perceive that the Sikh articles of faith are standing in your way of the pure orgasmic sexual bliss that is owed to you.</p><p></p><p>I hope by now you understand that no one is in your way except YOU. It's not the beard (gelled/trimmed/tucked/tied/khulli/shiny/wet/dry/long/frizzled/wavy/etc), it's rather your own self and your lack of growth into manhood.</p><p></p><p>Real men don't behave like you. They don't pander to the females sniffing around like dogs hoping to get laid. They have a mission in their life. They know what they want to accomplish in their life, and they are busy working to accomplish that mission. They have a sense of purpose. They are strong on their principles and morals. They don't see women as sex objects to gratify their Lust. They respect and adore females, and they cherish and honor their femininity without sullying it. They make meaningful, lasting relationships. They understand their purpose in the world. They overcome their base and animal instincts, and they aspire to the Divine.</p><p></p><p>All you want is to satisfy your lust.</p><p></p><p>Shame on you, Mr. Pink Shirt Big Hat.</p><p></p><p>After it's all said and done, please do come back and let us know how your sexual conquests went. And perhaps later on in life, when you have been humbled enough by life (and life can deliver punches that will bring you to your knees like nothing else), then maybe we can talk about Sikhi. And the precious gifts from Guru Sahib. And the infinite love that Guru has for us, which we, through our own foolishness, are forsaking.</p><p></p><p>[AoG]</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B9%E0%A8%AE" target="_blank">ਹਮ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A8%B5%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A3%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਅਵਗੁਣਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%B0%E0%A9%87" target="_blank">ਭਰੇ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%8F%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਏਕੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A3%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਗੁਣੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A8%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B9%E0%A9%80" target="_blank">ਨਾਹੀ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%AE%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%A4%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%9B%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%A1%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਛਾਡਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AC%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%96%E0%A9%88" target="_blank">ਬਿਖੈ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AC%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%96%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਬਿਖੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%96%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88" target="_blank">ਖਾਈ </a>॥</p><p>I am overflowing with sins and demerits; I have no merits or virtues at all. I abandoned the Ambrosial Nectar, and I drank poison instead.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%AF%E0%A8%BE" target="_blank">ਮਾਯਾ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A9%8B%E0%A8%B9" target="_blank">ਮੋਹ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%AE" target="_blank">ਭਰਮ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%88" target="_blank">ਪੈ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A9%82%E0%A8%B2%E0%A9%87" target="_blank">ਭੂਲੇ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A4" target="_blank">ਸੁਤ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE" target="_blank">ਦਾਰਾ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%89" target="_blank">ਸਿਉ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A9%80%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B2%E0%A8%97%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88" target="_blank">ਲਗਾਈ </a>॥</p><p>I am attached to Maya, and deluded by doubt; I have fallen in love with my children and spouse.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%87%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਇਕੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%89%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%AE" target="_blank">ਉਤਮ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%A5%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਪੰਥੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A8%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%93" target="_blank">ਸੁਨਿਓ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%B0" target="_blank">ਗੁਰ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%97%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਸੰਗਤਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%B9" target="_blank">ਤਿਹ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%B2%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%A4" target="_blank">ਮਿਲੰਤ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%9C%E0%A8%AE" target="_blank">ਜਮ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A4%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8" target="_blank">ਤ੍ਰਾਸ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%9F%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88" target="_blank">ਮਿਟਾਈ </a>॥</p><p>I have heard that the most exalted Path of all is the Sangat, the Guru's Congregation. Joining it, the fear of death is taken away.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%87%E0%A8%95" target="_blank">ਇਕ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਅਰਦਾਸਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%9F" target="_blank">ਭਾਟ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%80%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF" target="_blank">ਕੀਰਤਿ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%80" target="_blank">ਕੀ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%B0" target="_blank">ਗੁਰ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8" target="_blank">ਰਾਮਦਾਸ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%96%E0%A8%B9%E0%A9%81" target="_blank">ਰਾਖਹੁ </a><a href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A3%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88" target="_blank">ਸਰਣਾਈ </a>॥੪॥੫੮॥</p><p>Keerat the poet offers this one prayer: O Guru Raam Daas, save me! Take me into Your Sanctuary! ||4||58|| <span style="font-size: 15px"><strong><a href="http://www.gurugranthdarpan.com/darpan2/1406.html" target="_blank">http://www.gurugranthdarpan.com/darpan2/1406.html</a></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong><a href="http://www.gurugranthdarpan.com/darpan2/1406.html" target="_blank">http://www.gurugranthdarpan.com/darpan2/1406.html</a></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong><a href="http://www.gurugranthdarpan.com/darpan2/1406.html" target="_blank">Page 1406 SGGS</a></strong></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ActsOfGod, post: 205350, member: 18366"] I recently heard some music by the Australian band "The Beards". You should check out their stuff on youtube, it's hilarious and amazing. These guys are really, really, really into their beards. ALL their songs are about beards. Their music happens to be quite good too. In any case, after listening to two of their albums, I am completely brainwashed and can't look at anyone the same way again. Whenever I look around and see a "clean-shaven" man, I don't see a man at all. I see a little boy, certainly not a man. My mind starts wondering if they have problem growing a beard, or whether they just aren't manly enough to handle one. "With great beard, comes great responsibility", as they say. When I see a man with a full, thick beard, my mind says "Now THERE is a real MAN!" It's gotten to the point where it's a little awkward talking to the beardless wonders. Perhaps the brainwashing has gone too far. But how can I respect a beardless man? I mean, he could at the very least sport a five o'clock shadow....to at least give the ILLUSION of a beard, even if he doesn't have a REAL beard. At least that's somewhat more respectable than having a complete smooth-as-a-babys-bottom face. Otherwise, it's just awkward. If this is the effect on a male, once can only imagine what's going on in the ladies' minds. All tongue-in-cheek aside, do you really want your kids thinking this of you: [MEDIA=youtube]RmFnarFSj_U[/MEDIA] I don't say this often, but you are completely and totally wrong. Your BS theory of straight lines and symmetry is some kind of metrosexual brainwashing. Consider this: throughout human history, the male with the beard was considered virile, strong, sexually attractive and a desirable mate and partner for life. I really won't go into all the details here, but you can do your own research and find out. The beard was considered a symbol of fertility and virility. When they wanted to humiliate denigrate a man, they would shave off his beard. I guess eunuchs were beardless, what does that tell you? Fashions change, but human sexuality does not. Women find a man with a beard more sexually attractive, their perception is that he is stronger, wiser, and more masculine then his clean-shaven counterparts. Men with beards are seen as rugged, wise, potent, better lovers, and the best leaders. Men with beards were the real warriors and women swooned to them. When it comes down to what moves a woman at her core (forget about all the fashion nonsense), she will fall for a man with a beard because of his presence and vitality. This is true of any woman, not just of a particular culture or society. As far as you are concerned, though, you will not get the respect of any woman. Because you are willing to divest yourself or your very identity just so you can get into a females panties. A man who is willing to throw away everything that defines him is NOT attractive to females. Don't believe me, go ahead and ask around. Women love a man who takes a stand for what he believes in, who has a direction and purpose in life, who is willing to go against the tide in order to stick to his principles, and who will fight and die to protect them. Alas, that man is not you. You just want to get some booty, which I suppose is ok, you're listening to the Lust within you. (If it's any consolation, you're not alone, there are millions upon millions of sort-of-men just like you) Um.....yea Oooooooookay.... Who's stopping you? Why do you say "not being able to"? What is that nonsense? If you're a real man, you make your own decisions! This is a seriously UNattractive trait, dude. You won't score any points with the ladies on that one. Well Mr. Pink Shirt Big Hat, I think it's obvious, as Harry ji jhas stated, that what you really want is to get laid, and you perceive that the Sikh articles of faith are standing in your way of the pure orgasmic sexual bliss that is owed to you. I hope by now you understand that no one is in your way except YOU. It's not the beard (gelled/trimmed/tucked/tied/khulli/shiny/wet/dry/long/frizzled/wavy/etc), it's rather your own self and your lack of growth into manhood. Real men don't behave like you. They don't pander to the females sniffing around like dogs hoping to get laid. They have a mission in their life. They know what they want to accomplish in their life, and they are busy working to accomplish that mission. They have a sense of purpose. They are strong on their principles and morals. They don't see women as sex objects to gratify their Lust. They respect and adore females, and they cherish and honor their femininity without sullying it. They make meaningful, lasting relationships. They understand their purpose in the world. They overcome their base and animal instincts, and they aspire to the Divine. All you want is to satisfy your lust. Shame on you, Mr. Pink Shirt Big Hat. After it's all said and done, please do come back and let us know how your sexual conquests went. And perhaps later on in life, when you have been humbled enough by life (and life can deliver punches that will bring you to your knees like nothing else), then maybe we can talk about Sikhi. And the precious gifts from Guru Sahib. And the infinite love that Guru has for us, which we, through our own foolishness, are forsaking. [AoG] [URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B9%E0%A8%AE']ਹਮ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A8%B5%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A3%E0%A8%BF']ਅਵਗੁਣਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%B0%E0%A9%87']ਭਰੇ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%8F%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%81']ਏਕੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A3%E0%A9%81']ਗੁਣੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A8%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B9%E0%A9%80']ਨਾਹੀ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%AE%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%A4%E0%A9%81']ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%9B%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%A1%E0%A8%BF']ਛਾਡਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AC%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%96%E0%A9%88']ਬਿਖੈ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AC%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%96%E0%A9%81']ਬਿਖੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%96%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88']ਖਾਈ [/URL]॥ I am overflowing with sins and demerits; I have no merits or virtues at all. I abandoned the Ambrosial Nectar, and I drank poison instead. [URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%AF%E0%A8%BE']ਮਾਯਾ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A9%8B%E0%A8%B9']ਮੋਹ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%AE']ਭਰਮ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%88']ਪੈ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A9%82%E0%A8%B2%E0%A9%87']ਭੂਲੇ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A4']ਸੁਤ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE']ਦਾਰਾ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%89']ਸਿਉ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A9%80%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF']ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B2%E0%A8%97%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88']ਲਗਾਈ [/URL]॥ I am attached to Maya, and deluded by doubt; I have fallen in love with my children and spouse. [URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%87%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%81']ਇਕੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%89%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%AE']ਉਤਮ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AA%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%A5%E0%A9%81']ਪੰਥੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%A8%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%93']ਸੁਨਿਓ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%B0']ਗੁਰ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%97%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF']ਸੰਗਤਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%B9']ਤਿਹ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%B2%E0%A9%B0%E0%A8%A4']ਮਿਲੰਤ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%9C%E0%A8%AE']ਜਮ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%A4%E0%A9%8D%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8']ਤ੍ਰਾਸ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%BF%E0%A8%9F%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88']ਮਿਟਾਈ [/URL]॥ I have heard that the most exalted Path of all is the Sangat, the Guru's Congregation. Joining it, the fear of death is taken away. [URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%87%E0%A8%95']ਇਕ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%85%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%BF']ਅਰਦਾਸਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%AD%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%9F']ਭਾਟ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%80%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A4%E0%A8%BF']ਕੀਰਤਿ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%95%E0%A9%80']ਕੀ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%97%E0%A9%81%E0%A8%B0']ਗੁਰ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%AE%E0%A8%A6%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B8']ਰਾਮਦਾਸ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%96%E0%A8%B9%E0%A9%81']ਰਾਖਹੁ [/URL][URL='http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%B8%E0%A8%B0%E0%A8%A3%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%88']ਸਰਣਾਈ [/URL]॥੪॥੫੮॥ Keerat the poet offers this one prayer: O Guru Raam Daas, save me! 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