This news is very disturbing one. So embarassing it is. There are so many faces to this event e.g.
1. Immigrants inter-generational issue
2. If boy is charged, this will give a lesson to other similar aspirants, who bring defame to community by single thoughtless action. Also, it may give an upper hand to fanatic people who do things ritualistically without giving any thought of rationale behind it.
3. If boy is not charged, it becomes an acceptable thing within community, to raise hoax without any grounds. On the same note, last case in Surrey, BC also should be considered. I am disturbed at the fact, if there is really some genuine case of hate crime, that may get painted with the brush of this hoax.
Personally, I find parents more responsible for this. If they had some idea about what their boy is thinking, and intend to do, why raise it to such high levels to bring shame to total community?
On a more serious note, I feel, most of us commit mistakes in our own lives, and not perfect all the time. Even the saints err due to Kaam, Krodh, Lobh, Moh, Ahankaar. Magnitude differs though. High time for parents to maintain more friendly relations with kids. Typical case not only for sikhs, but all immigrants or still specifically the cases with generation gaps.
Waheguru sab nu sikhi daan bakhshan.