This section of the forum seems dead. But I'll post anyway. I've never been to a gurdwara or any place of worship. I've been doing a lot of research on Sikhi and would love to attend my local gurdwara. I'm basically not sure if I should email them first and ask for help or just go in one day and just sit and observe? Should I buy a patiala suit to wear and not stand out? Is a normal salwar suit with tighter pants suitable? I only have skinny jeans and cardigans, I'm not sure that's modest enough. I simply don't know where to start in terms of meeting Sikhs and entering the gurdwara.