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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="namritanevaeh" data-source="post: 174402" data-attributes="member: 18793"><p>Thanks LuckySingh. You know what? There is a gentleman I work with who one day was saying he was glad he only had 1 daughter to worry about her getting "knocked up". ;-) I said to him (he also has a son) that he has his priorities on the wrong way. I said "if your daughter gets pregnant, there is a VERY good chance you will only end up a grandfather of an oopsie once. People do TEND to learn their lesson. Could be twins or triplets, but chances of that, or higher, are so very small it's hardly worth considering. Your son, however, if you don't educate him properly to insist on using protection for his OWN self and future as well as the girl's, could easily end up, if he is unable to keep his pants zipped up ;-) impregnating 10 girls in the time it takes your daughter to get pregnant once. And if all 10 of those girls DO decide to come after him for child support payments and he is unable to do so, ie still in school or something, who will ultimately end up having to help out but you?".</p><p></p><p>My work colleague looked at me and I swear his jaw dropped about 2 inches. He was like..."you are SO right. I mean I hope I have instilled in my son that you shouldn't do that and just sleep around willy nilly but it's not like I have any way of checking or imprisoning him to make sure he doesn't."</p><p></p><p>It sure made him think. The guys may well sometimes get off virtually scott free in terms of having to live through baby years, toddlerhood, sleepless nights...if they refuse to stand up and be a man about it. But many women WOULD and do ask for child support for children conceived this way every year throughout the world. Depending on where you live, you can have your children taken away and STILL have to provide financial support for them.</p><p></p><p>So...yeah. It sure is easier when it's not your body that has to commit to it. I won't say I hated every moment of being pregnant the other times it happened (and they WERE planned with the same person...and I left due to abuse before I get asked that)...but it's not all a walk in the park. And the scars that stay in your soul from the loss of a child you didn't plan but ended up desiring after that possibility was handed to you can be, in my experience and the experience of other mothers I've spoken to, almost MORE devastating than planned kids. When you lose a child you planned, it is of course devastating too...but there is virtually always the possibility of "trying again". Those of us who lose a child like this...have none of that. It's over. And if things had turned out differently and the child had survived, I might be looking down at a child with his smile, or his eyes NOW...but I will never get that chance. Which is just as devastating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="namritanevaeh, post: 174402, member: 18793"] Thanks LuckySingh. You know what? There is a gentleman I work with who one day was saying he was glad he only had 1 daughter to worry about her getting "knocked up". ;-) I said to him (he also has a son) that he has his priorities on the wrong way. I said "if your daughter gets pregnant, there is a VERY good chance you will only end up a grandfather of an oopsie once. People do TEND to learn their lesson. Could be twins or triplets, but chances of that, or higher, are so very small it's hardly worth considering. Your son, however, if you don't educate him properly to insist on using protection for his OWN self and future as well as the girl's, could easily end up, if he is unable to keep his pants zipped up ;-) impregnating 10 girls in the time it takes your daughter to get pregnant once. And if all 10 of those girls DO decide to come after him for child support payments and he is unable to do so, ie still in school or something, who will ultimately end up having to help out but you?". My work colleague looked at me and I swear his jaw dropped about 2 inches. He was like..."you are SO right. I mean I hope I have instilled in my son that you shouldn't do that and just sleep around willy nilly but it's not like I have any way of checking or imprisoning him to make sure he doesn't." It sure made him think. The guys may well sometimes get off virtually scott free in terms of having to live through baby years, toddlerhood, sleepless nights...if they refuse to stand up and be a man about it. But many women WOULD and do ask for child support for children conceived this way every year throughout the world. Depending on where you live, you can have your children taken away and STILL have to provide financial support for them. So...yeah. It sure is easier when it's not your body that has to commit to it. I won't say I hated every moment of being pregnant the other times it happened (and they WERE planned with the same person...and I left due to abuse before I get asked that)...but it's not all a walk in the park. And the scars that stay in your soul from the loss of a child you didn't plan but ended up desiring after that possibility was handed to you can be, in my experience and the experience of other mothers I've spoken to, almost MORE devastating than planned kids. When you lose a child you planned, it is of course devastating too...but there is virtually always the possibility of "trying again". Those of us who lose a child like this...have none of that. It's over. And if things had turned out differently and the child had survived, I might be looking down at a child with his smile, or his eyes NOW...but I will never get that chance. Which is just as devastating. [/QUOTE]
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