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peace in our time

Discussion in 'Blogs' started by Harry Haller, Oct 16, 2015.

  1. Harry Haller

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    Ahhh peace, peace from the howling, from life, peace, and what has brought about this peace?

    Simple, the final realisation that sex is not everything in a relationship, ok, it took me a while, but I did not realise just how wonderful it is to spend time with my wife, my dogs, without thinking constantly about sex, maybe its my own fault, a lifetime spent pursuing pleasure cured by monogamy, only to find my own definition of monogamy seriously warped.

    Monogamy-meaning-to only have sex with one woman

    Monogamy-harry meaning-to only have sex with one woman, constantly

    We cook, we talk, we sit with the dogs, its a bit like falling in love again, the second time round, I did not realise just how big sex, and the expectation of sex had become, how much it had dominated things, its been months now, and I really could not care less, I am still howling, but the frequency and length seems to be diminishing rapidly,

    I think I am growing up, I also think I am falling in love, true love, rather than lust
     
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