WGJKK WGJKF As I was asked, I am asking ... Can anyone please point out any guidlines from our dharam about the relationship between parents and their children? In particular, I remember when as a child, a relative once told me about the time one of Guru Nanaks sons questioned him about Guru jis instruction to him, something about a shoe and a tree or something .... the 'moral' I was told was not to question ones father (parent). My understanding is that we are to, try and understand our parents, to respect, love, and follow the guidelines set by them. To obey 'without question', that I may have issue with. can anyone comment please.