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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Seeker2013" data-source="post: 203345" data-attributes="member: 19755"><p>I was feeling very very hopeless and depressed today evening coming back from gurudwara sahib. When I came home, my mom saw me visibly upset totally and my mom dad insisted I tell them whats the reason. I was emotionally feeling built up on the inside and then it poured out. My parents tried to calm me as I was sobbing.</p><p></p><p>I had told them earlier too but again once told them I have no interest in girls.</p><p>they just ask one question "ur not a namard (impotent) are u ?" I usually reply back "I can give you a grandchild."</p><p>and that usually placates them , as if thats the only 'raison detre' behind marriage.</p><p></p><p>YEAH ! lets throw away the romance, emotional connection away, esp in the year 2015 where heterosexuals run amok with their romance and put it on big hoarding boards for a product (you call them advertisements and marketing , ok ! ) not to mention its ubiquitous . I can't walk 5 minutes away from my home without bumping into a 20-something guy and a girl holding hands. karo raaj ! and please don't forget to take a {censored} on us sexual minorities because you guys are the majority. ok , sorry for the rant but it comes naturally to someone who feels utterly hopeless.</p><p></p><p>They think I will somehow start to love her. They think they now understand my problem but they don't even when I added "I like men" . oh yeah ! I mean they didn't even hear that part, and they don't even want to hear it . why ? its inconvenient .</p><p></p><p>so now they want to take me to a sexologist and my dad even says it doesn't matter whether i love her or not , its enough that i will get cooked food, cleaned clothes, a child, <insert other 100 things married men get></p><p></p><p>meanwhile mom says her life would be a waste if she died without seeing the face of a grandchild. I think my fate is written as a romantic gay men stuck in a straight marriage and who has flings with men on the side when his wife isn't looking .</p><p></p><p>I know people will say but why should I screw the life of an innocent girl. I am so callused by the 'heterosexual persecution' now that I rarely even consider that 'wrongdoing' . I mean the day you mocked a 'fag' , u set up a system in which 'fags' will marry your sisters and daughters . *sorry if it hurts, its the truth*</p><p></p><p>so if I married a girl, do you think thats a better option ? or does that seem like a disaster from your rose-tinted glasses ?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Seeker2013, post: 203345, member: 19755"] I was feeling very very hopeless and depressed today evening coming back from gurudwara sahib. When I came home, my mom saw me visibly upset totally and my mom dad insisted I tell them whats the reason. I was emotionally feeling built up on the inside and then it poured out. My parents tried to calm me as I was sobbing. I had told them earlier too but again once told them I have no interest in girls. they just ask one question "ur not a namard (impotent) are u ?" I usually reply back "I can give you a grandchild." and that usually placates them , as if thats the only 'raison detre' behind marriage. YEAH ! lets throw away the romance, emotional connection away, esp in the year 2015 where heterosexuals run amok with their romance and put it on big hoarding boards for a product (you call them advertisements and marketing , ok ! ) not to mention its ubiquitous . I can't walk 5 minutes away from my home without bumping into a 20-something guy and a girl holding hands. karo raaj ! and please don't forget to take a {censored} on us sexual minorities because you guys are the majority. ok , sorry for the rant but it comes naturally to someone who feels utterly hopeless. They think I will somehow start to love her. They think they now understand my problem but they don't even when I added "I like men" . oh yeah ! I mean they didn't even hear that part, and they don't even want to hear it . why ? its inconvenient . so now they want to take me to a sexologist and my dad even says it doesn't matter whether i love her or not , its enough that i will get cooked food, cleaned clothes, a child, <insert other 100 things married men get> meanwhile mom says her life would be a waste if she died without seeing the face of a grandchild. I think my fate is written as a romantic gay men stuck in a straight marriage and who has flings with men on the side when his wife isn't looking . I know people will say but why should I screw the life of an innocent girl. I am so callused by the 'heterosexual persecution' now that I rarely even consider that 'wrongdoing' . I mean the day you mocked a 'fag' , u set up a system in which 'fags' will marry your sisters and daughters . *sorry if it hurts, its the truth* so if I married a girl, do you think thats a better option ? or does that seem like a disaster from your rose-tinted glasses ? [/QUOTE]
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