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<blockquote data-quote="Archived_Member1" data-source="post: 73654" data-attributes="member: 4703"><p>as some SPN members know, i've been dealing with a cyber-stalker for a while now. i'm trying to learn how to deal with this in a calm manner. i know that it is a test, that in order for it to stop bothering me i need to shed my ego, my attachment to outside image. </p><p></p><p>recently i found the following story of and bani from Bhagat Kabeer ji that i found really helpful. hopefully others who are being harassed or bullied can take something from it as well.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000000">Kabeer Sahib had a jealous neighbor, whose only pastime was to slander (<em>Nindaa</em>) Kabeer. One day the foolish slanderer died. People thought the news of his death must make Kabeer very happy. To the contrary, when Kabeer found out about it, he became very sad. His devotees naturally inquired as to why he was sad instead of being happy now that his slanderer is dead. Kabeer said "the reason I feel sad, now as my slanderer is gone, who will wash my sins off and take upon himself". According to the Gurbani, there are countless such slanderers (<em>Nindak</em>), struggling in Maya.</span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>(please forgive the odd formatting, i took it straight from my blog. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> )</p><p></p><p></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">go<strong>u</strong>rr<strong>ee</strong> ||</span>gauree:</em></p><p></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dho n<strong>i</strong>(n)dho m<strong>o</strong> ko l<strong>o</strong>g n<strong>i</strong>(n)dho ||</span> Slander me, slander me - go ahead, people, and slander me.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> jan ko khar<strong>ee</strong> p<strong>i</strong><strong>aa</strong>r<strong>ee</strong> ||</span> Slander is pleasing to the Lord's humble servant.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> b<strong>aa</strong>p n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> mehath<strong>aa</strong>r<strong>ee</strong> ||1|| reh<strong>aa</strong>o ||</span> Slander is my father, slander is my mother. ||1||Pause||</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> h<strong>o</strong>e th b<strong>ai</strong>k<strong>u</strong>(n)t(h) j<strong>aa</strong><strong>ee</strong><strong>ai</strong> ||</span> <strong>If I am slandered, I go to heaven;</strong></em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>aa</strong>m padh<strong>aa</strong>rathh maneh<strong>i</strong> bas<strong>aa</strong><strong>ee</strong><strong>ai</strong> ||</span> the wealth of the Naam, the Name of the Lord, abides within my mind.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">r<strong>i</strong>dh<strong>ai</strong> s<strong>u</strong>dhh jo n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> h<strong>o</strong>e ||</span> If my heart is pure, and I am slandered,</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">hamar<strong>ae</strong> kapar<strong>ae</strong> n<strong>i</strong>(n)dhak dhh<strong>o</strong>e ||1||</span> then the slanderer washes my clothes. ||1||</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> kar<strong>ai</strong> s hamar<strong>aa</strong> m<strong>ee</strong>th ||</span> One who slanders me is my friend;</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dhak m<strong>aa</strong>h<strong>i</strong> ham<strong>aa</strong>r<strong>aa</strong> ch<strong>ee</strong>th ||</span> the slanderer is in my thoughts.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dhak s<strong>o</strong> j<strong>o</strong> n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> h<strong>o</strong>r<strong>ai</strong> ||</span> The slanderer is the one who prevents me from being slandered.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">hamar<strong>aa</strong> j<strong>ee</strong>van n<strong>i</strong>(n)dhak l<strong>o</strong>r<strong>ai</strong> ||2||</span> The slanderer wishes me long life. ||2||</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> hamar<strong>ee</strong> pr<strong>ae</strong>m p<strong>i</strong><strong>aa</strong>r ||</span> I have love and affection for the slanderer.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> hamar<strong>aa</strong> kar<strong>ai</strong> o<strong>u</strong>dhh<strong>aa</strong>r ||</span> Slander is my salvation.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">jan kab<strong>ee</strong>r ko n<strong>i</strong>(n)dh<strong>aa</strong> s<strong>aa</strong>r</span> || Slander is the best thing for servant Kabeer.</em></p><p> <em><span style="color: #ff0000">n<strong>i</strong>(n)dhak dd<strong>oo</strong>b<strong>aa</strong> ham o<strong>u</strong>thar<strong>ae</strong> p<strong>aa</strong>r ||3||20||71||</span> <strong>The slanderer is drowned, while I am carried across. ||3||20||71||</strong></em></p><p> <em>(sggs 339)</em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>does anyone else have experience in dealing with Ninda/slander/harassment/bullying and have some Gurbani solutions for dealing with it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Archived_Member1, post: 73654, member: 4703"] as some SPN members know, i've been dealing with a cyber-stalker for a while now. i'm trying to learn how to deal with this in a calm manner. i know that it is a test, that in order for it to stop bothering me i need to shed my ego, my attachment to outside image. recently i found the following story of and bani from Bhagat Kabeer ji that i found really helpful. hopefully others who are being harassed or bullied can take something from it as well. [COLOR=#000000]Kabeer Sahib had a jealous neighbor, whose only pastime was to slander ([I]Nindaa[/I]) Kabeer. One day the foolish slanderer died. People thought the news of his death must make Kabeer very happy. To the contrary, when Kabeer found out about it, he became very sad. His devotees naturally inquired as to why he was sad instead of being happy now that his slanderer is dead. Kabeer said "the reason I feel sad, now as my slanderer is gone, who will wash my sins off and take upon himself". According to the Gurbani, there are countless such slanderers ([I]Nindak[/I]), struggling in Maya.[/COLOR] (please forgive the odd formatting, i took it straight from my blog. :) ) [I][COLOR=#ff0000]go[B]u[/B]rr[B]ee[/B] ||[/COLOR]gauree:[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dho n[B]i[/B](n)dho m[B]o[/B] ko l[B]o[/B]g n[B]i[/B](n)dho ||[/COLOR] Slander me, slander me - go ahead, people, and slander me.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] jan ko khar[B]ee[/B] p[B]i[/B][B]aa[/B]r[B]ee[/B] ||[/COLOR] Slander is pleasing to the Lord's humble servant.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] b[B]aa[/B]p n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] mehath[B]aa[/B]r[B]ee[/B] ||1|| reh[B]aa[/B]o ||[/COLOR] Slander is my father, slander is my mother. ||1||Pause||[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] h[B]o[/B]e th b[B]ai[/B]k[B]u[/B](n)t(h) j[B]aa[/B][B]ee[/B][B]ai[/B] ||[/COLOR] [B]If I am slandered, I go to heaven;[/B][/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]aa[/B]m padh[B]aa[/B]rathh maneh[B]i[/B] bas[B]aa[/B][B]ee[/B][B]ai[/B] ||[/COLOR] the wealth of the Naam, the Name of the Lord, abides within my mind.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]r[B]i[/B]dh[B]ai[/B] s[B]u[/B]dhh jo n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] h[B]o[/B]e ||[/COLOR] If my heart is pure, and I am slandered,[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]hamar[B]ae[/B] kapar[B]ae[/B] n[B]i[/B](n)dhak dhh[B]o[/B]e ||1||[/COLOR] then the slanderer washes my clothes. ||1||[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] kar[B]ai[/B] s hamar[B]aa[/B] m[B]ee[/B]th ||[/COLOR] One who slanders me is my friend;[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dhak m[B]aa[/B]h[B]i[/B] ham[B]aa[/B]r[B]aa[/B] ch[B]ee[/B]th ||[/COLOR] the slanderer is in my thoughts.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dhak s[B]o[/B] j[B]o[/B] n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] h[B]o[/B]r[B]ai[/B] ||[/COLOR] The slanderer is the one who prevents me from being slandered.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]hamar[B]aa[/B] j[B]ee[/B]van n[B]i[/B](n)dhak l[B]o[/B]r[B]ai[/B] ||2||[/COLOR] The slanderer wishes me long life. ||2||[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] hamar[B]ee[/B] pr[B]ae[/B]m p[B]i[/B][B]aa[/B]r ||[/COLOR] I have love and affection for the slanderer.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] hamar[B]aa[/B] kar[B]ai[/B] o[B]u[/B]dhh[B]aa[/B]r ||[/COLOR] Slander is my salvation.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]jan kab[B]ee[/B]r ko n[B]i[/B](n)dh[B]aa[/B] s[B]aa[/B]r[/COLOR] || Slander is the best thing for servant Kabeer.[/I] [I][COLOR=#ff0000]n[B]i[/B](n)dhak dd[B]oo[/B]b[B]aa[/B] ham o[B]u[/B]thar[B]ae[/B] p[B]aa[/B]r ||3||20||71||[/COLOR] [B]The slanderer is drowned, while I am carried across. ||3||20||71||[/B][/I] [I](sggs 339)[/I] does anyone else have experience in dealing with Ninda/slander/harassment/bullying and have some Gurbani solutions for dealing with it? [/QUOTE]
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