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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Harry Haller" data-source="post: 201386" data-attributes="member: 14641"><p>this is called maturity, some people never see it, never learn, you must have an open mind, most of what we worry about never happens. we worry about what people think of us, about our image in society, free yourself from it, be you, but first you have to find 'you'. </p><p></p><p></p><p>personally I do not think you need any help at all. Because you are different, you have become self obsessed, the desire to be normal, to be accepted, to act like actors in a film do, to have the white picket fence, the perfect life, as shown in films, tv shows, but its only surface, it was only ever going to be surface. Instead, throw off your shackles and be free, stand proud, stand tall, you made a comment about gay men being close to the female psyche earlier, I know plenty gay men, and believe me they are not close to the female psyche at all, both are ex forces, both are very strapping strong all male men. They just happen to find other men attractive, thats it. Be whoever it is you are, but be you, not a character in a film. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I have no idea, earning honest money, looking after your family, helping your dad out with his money problems, being there for people does not sound degrading to me at all. However on the other hand, being spoilt, being a burden, not working, and allowing yourself to be seen as precious and being terrified of failure sounds pretty degrading. I blame the media, according to such, we should all be walking around with bright teeth, light skin, the latest mercedes and a beautiful loving partner. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I am at a point in my relationship where it is make or break, being single does not scare me at all, and I do not see it as a terrible thing at all, actually at times more of a wonderful thing! Seeing your parents go one by one is better than dying before them, knowing you were there for them till the end is a thought I find comforting, that I can do for them what they did for me. </p><p></p><p>It seems to me that this guy seems the most enlightened of all of us, it is not the lightness of a persons skin that impresses me, nor the size of their house, or the shiny car, or the number of servants or the extreme amount of garish jewels, it is someone that can raise 2 daughters with 20,000R, I find that hugely impressive, it is worth a million Audis to me.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I don't think so, but it is tempting to suggest you just get it out to them, because it seems until you do that, you are living a lie, sometimes knowing something is better than suspecting and worrying about it, at least you can deal with it. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>sort yourself out first, then we can talk about the kids <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>maybe he has more love than money?</p><p></p><p></p><p>I dont think so, I think you care hugely what people think, which is the cause of the majority of your problems, you are not alive, you are not dead, you are in a war zone, the priority is getting out of that zone and into some sort of normality. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>this is all a false illusion desired by a false personality, unless you get your foundation straight, you will never find contentment or happiness, but be prepared that once your foundation straight, your goals will change, have an open mind, first and foremost, you must stand on your own two feet, be independent and be honest and proud of who you are, then you can stop hiding and focusing on fantasies, and focus on the real world and your perception of it, in my opinion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harry Haller, post: 201386, member: 14641"] this is called maturity, some people never see it, never learn, you must have an open mind, most of what we worry about never happens. we worry about what people think of us, about our image in society, free yourself from it, be you, but first you have to find 'you'. personally I do not think you need any help at all. Because you are different, you have become self obsessed, the desire to be normal, to be accepted, to act like actors in a film do, to have the white picket fence, the perfect life, as shown in films, tv shows, but its only surface, it was only ever going to be surface. Instead, throw off your shackles and be free, stand proud, stand tall, you made a comment about gay men being close to the female psyche earlier, I know plenty gay men, and believe me they are not close to the female psyche at all, both are ex forces, both are very strapping strong all male men. They just happen to find other men attractive, thats it. Be whoever it is you are, but be you, not a character in a film. I have no idea, earning honest money, looking after your family, helping your dad out with his money problems, being there for people does not sound degrading to me at all. However on the other hand, being spoilt, being a burden, not working, and allowing yourself to be seen as precious and being terrified of failure sounds pretty degrading. I blame the media, according to such, we should all be walking around with bright teeth, light skin, the latest mercedes and a beautiful loving partner. I am at a point in my relationship where it is make or break, being single does not scare me at all, and I do not see it as a terrible thing at all, actually at times more of a wonderful thing! Seeing your parents go one by one is better than dying before them, knowing you were there for them till the end is a thought I find comforting, that I can do for them what they did for me. It seems to me that this guy seems the most enlightened of all of us, it is not the lightness of a persons skin that impresses me, nor the size of their house, or the shiny car, or the number of servants or the extreme amount of garish jewels, it is someone that can raise 2 daughters with 20,000R, I find that hugely impressive, it is worth a million Audis to me. I don't think so, but it is tempting to suggest you just get it out to them, because it seems until you do that, you are living a lie, sometimes knowing something is better than suspecting and worrying about it, at least you can deal with it. sort yourself out first, then we can talk about the kids :) maybe he has more love than money? I dont think so, I think you care hugely what people think, which is the cause of the majority of your problems, you are not alive, you are not dead, you are in a war zone, the priority is getting out of that zone and into some sort of normality. this is all a false illusion desired by a false personality, unless you get your foundation straight, you will never find contentment or happiness, but be prepared that once your foundation straight, your goals will change, have an open mind, first and foremost, you must stand on your own two feet, be independent and be honest and proud of who you are, then you can stop hiding and focusing on fantasies, and focus on the real world and your perception of it, in my opinion [/QUOTE]
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