Most ppl have a problem with me . At first I used to brush it off as 'these people are just being jerks' but when too many people dislike u , then obviously so many people cannot be wrong I am judged quite often . but I also have very few friends I have a problem being friends or maintaining friendships with most straight guys . I don't know perhaps becoz our interests are different . Whenever they congregate , its always about the alcohol , chics and such things for them I don't like alcohol or chics coz m gay but I can't tell them so , we sort of end up operating at different frequencies and very soon I feel left out of the group How do I make new friends who are interesting and of some value ? Most people detect something in me for the first time meet which makes both of us feel uncomfortable . Don't know what it is There was this guy who met me first time or so and said 'ur gay , aren't u ?' I later asked him how did he knew and he said 'same way as you can differentiate an apple and an orange' didn't get him and he didn't explained it either I need friends , but most people don't wanna be friends with me . They think I am boring and dull and quite often my gayish lisp in accent makes people go away from me Would I have to change myself ?