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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="loveanddestiny" data-source="post: 174500" data-attributes="member: 18820"><p>hi everyone!! </p><p></p><p>i'm also new here, so please be gentle with me <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>i had a similar problem as you, although vice versa, i am a white girl, not religious , dating a sikh man.. we have now been together for 5+years. However in the begining it was hard for us, a Sikh man, with a white girl was something we saw frowned up alot from both cultures. but in the begining, we had to keep our relationship a secret, as both families were sort of against mixed race relationships/marriages, i think for about the first 9months we didnt meet eachothers families and the friends we introduced eachother too were limited due to news "spreading" to the families. but love kicked in, and we had to introduce eachother to our respective families. - boy was this scary! but once my family got to know my boyfriend they adored him, and everything changed for the better.....BUT my boyfriends family were a mixed bunch. his older sister hated me, still does to this day and iv never had a chance to say more than two words to her before she bolts from the room or just point blankly refuses to talk to me while in the same room as me, his brother doesnt talk to me unless he has to, ( which i dont mind, becos his bro is a total waste of space.) his mum loves me to bits, always kissing my cheeks, hugging me or talking to me. his dad was the hardest one of all. he believed my boyfriend should be with a sikh female, even went as far as banning me from the house when i had done nothing wrong, argued with my boyfriend over the problems of marrying a "white girl" and even went as far as trying to arrange a marriage for my boyfriend to a sikh girl. but over time. his dad came around to me and now talks to me and even offers to help me with any problems i have. and now me and my boyfriend have been together 5+years and still as madly in love as we was in the begining, it doesnt matter that he's sikh and im white, it matters how we feel of eachother, and that we love and respect and cherish eachother, if all we had was our religions, and belifes....i dread to think what my life would be like with out him :-( </p><p></p><p></p><p>i guess what im trying to say, in a long winded round about way ( sorry guys i tend to ramble) is, yes sometimes there are going to be problems in a mixed relationship when it comes to the families and traditions and opinions, but when you are in love and are willing to put in the effort for eachother, then it ur family will see this, and come around ( in an ideal world. i understand some people can just be stubborn) i was lucky.... some people might think their families wont approve, but u dont know untill you try! keep a relationship a secret from fear of "what other people think" is alot harder than any other aspect of the realtionship. xx</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="loveanddestiny, post: 174500, member: 18820"] hi everyone!! i'm also new here, so please be gentle with me :-) i had a similar problem as you, although vice versa, i am a white girl, not religious , dating a sikh man.. we have now been together for 5+years. However in the begining it was hard for us, a Sikh man, with a white girl was something we saw frowned up alot from both cultures. but in the begining, we had to keep our relationship a secret, as both families were sort of against mixed race relationships/marriages, i think for about the first 9months we didnt meet eachothers families and the friends we introduced eachother too were limited due to news "spreading" to the families. but love kicked in, and we had to introduce eachother to our respective families. - boy was this scary! but once my family got to know my boyfriend they adored him, and everything changed for the better.....BUT my boyfriends family were a mixed bunch. his older sister hated me, still does to this day and iv never had a chance to say more than two words to her before she bolts from the room or just point blankly refuses to talk to me while in the same room as me, his brother doesnt talk to me unless he has to, ( which i dont mind, becos his bro is a total waste of space.) his mum loves me to bits, always kissing my cheeks, hugging me or talking to me. his dad was the hardest one of all. he believed my boyfriend should be with a sikh female, even went as far as banning me from the house when i had done nothing wrong, argued with my boyfriend over the problems of marrying a "white girl" and even went as far as trying to arrange a marriage for my boyfriend to a sikh girl. but over time. his dad came around to me and now talks to me and even offers to help me with any problems i have. and now me and my boyfriend have been together 5+years and still as madly in love as we was in the begining, it doesnt matter that he's sikh and im white, it matters how we feel of eachother, and that we love and respect and cherish eachother, if all we had was our religions, and belifes....i dread to think what my life would be like with out him :-( i guess what im trying to say, in a long winded round about way ( sorry guys i tend to ramble) is, yes sometimes there are going to be problems in a mixed relationship when it comes to the families and traditions and opinions, but when you are in love and are willing to put in the effort for eachother, then it ur family will see this, and come around ( in an ideal world. i understand some people can just be stubborn) i was lucky.... some people might think their families wont approve, but u dont know untill you try! keep a relationship a secret from fear of "what other people think" is alot harder than any other aspect of the realtionship. xx [/QUOTE]
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