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<blockquote data-quote="Scott.D" data-source="post: 133447" data-attributes="member: 13180"><p><strong>White bloke in a relationship with a Sikh girl, without her family knowing</strong></p><p></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Good afternoon all.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">I am new to this site and this is my first thread, so please be kind.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Right where do I begin.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">I've been dating this girl for around 6 months now, but we've had to keep our relationship secret from her family, due to me not being a Sikh, being white and also her parents wanting her to have an arranged marriage.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She has alway quite openly given her objections about how an arranged marriage would not work for her, that she wants to be in Love before she marries, but her dad has told her if that is the case then she will have to deal with the consequences.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Also she has been told she will be marrying a Jatt Sikh, which is considered quite a good due to Jatt's being associated with landowners, but she has always told me that is against what Sikhism is about, equality.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">After joining this forum, and reading quite a number of threads seems to back her view up.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Her sister recently found out about us, the reaction wasn't good.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She told her to dump me asap, to which she started telling her 'do you know how this will affect our parents, it will destroy them' etc.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">She continued, with saying how she didn't know what she really wanted, and should go and see a doctor, he might refer her to a councillor, believing the only reason she was with me, was to take her mind off not having a job(she graduated from University about a 2-3 years ago).</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">The thing she has told me that her sister has also had a long term relationship in secret while at university herself, but broke it off at the end of University, due to her parents and in the future having an arranged marriage herself.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">The main reason why I've added this, I was wanting other people’s opinions on this, how can she advise her on all the above, when she herself, by her own standards has betrayed her parents.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">The only difference is her sister hasn't followed her heart and told her parent about this relationship.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Which leads me onto the main reason why I've decided to write this thread, She has said that she wants to be 100% certain that I am right for her before she tells her parents about me, to which she has said she is 90% certain at the moment, but wants some more time to get to know me better.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Which I am perfectly fine with, however I am worried, since the longer she leaves telling her parents the more angry they will be, due to her having to lie to them where she is going for the weekend, and when they find out say we've together for over a year, I'm not sure how they will react.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Thanks for reading my post; I hope everyone has a good weekend.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">Scott.D</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scott.D, post: 133447, member: 13180"] [b]White bloke in a relationship with a Sikh girl, without her family knowing[/b] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Good afternoon all.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I am new to this site and this is my first thread, so please be kind.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Right where do I begin.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]I've been dating this girl for around 6 months now, but we've had to keep our relationship secret from her family, due to me not being a Sikh, being white and also her parents wanting her to have an arranged marriage.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She has alway quite openly given her objections about how an arranged marriage would not work for her, that she wants to be in Love before she marries, but her dad has told her if that is the case then she will have to deal with the consequences.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Also she has been told she will be marrying a Jatt Sikh, which is considered quite a good due to Jatt's being associated with landowners, but she has always told me that is against what Sikhism is about, equality.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]After joining this forum, and reading quite a number of threads seems to back her view up.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Her sister recently found out about us, the reaction wasn't good.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She told her to dump me asap, to which she started telling her 'do you know how this will affect our parents, it will destroy them' etc.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]She continued, with saying how she didn't know what she really wanted, and should go and see a doctor, he might refer her to a councillor, believing the only reason she was with me, was to take her mind off not having a job(she graduated from University about a 2-3 years ago).[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]The thing she has told me that her sister has also had a long term relationship in secret while at university herself, but broke it off at the end of University, due to her parents and in the future having an arranged marriage herself.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]The main reason why I've added this, I was wanting other people’s opinions on this, how can she advise her on all the above, when she herself, by her own standards has betrayed her parents.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]The only difference is her sister hasn't followed her heart and told her parent about this relationship.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Which leads me onto the main reason why I've decided to write this thread, She has said that she wants to be 100% certain that I am right for her before she tells her parents about me, to which she has said she is 90% certain at the moment, but wants some more time to get to know me better.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Which I am perfectly fine with, however I am worried, since the longer she leaves telling her parents the more angry they will be, due to her having to lie to them where she is going for the weekend, and when they find out say we've together for over a year, I'm not sure how they will react.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Thanks for reading my post; I hope everyone has a good weekend.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Scott.D[/FONT][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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