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ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
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Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Harry Haller" data-source="post: 207791" data-attributes="member: 14641"><p>how quickly miracles turn to curses, if you believe getting the job was a miracle, then it should only follow that you should view any hardship as a curse, in my view that is the problem with putting too much on the divine and not enough on yourself. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>why should anyone scold him, people love entertainment, and people love not being the subject of bullying themselves, so when he turned on you, then it is a combination of entertainment and relief, sure they probably feel a bit sorry for you, but they are glad it is not them that is being picked on, that is human nature., </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>this hardly the peak of wit and satire, did it ever occur to you that anyone making these utterances is only making themselves look stupid, all you really have to do is just look confused that anyone could be so stupid as to ask such questions. I always used to find, when I was wearing a turban, that a straightforward reply makes the other look completely foolish, and if they persist, then a simple ' these questions did not seem that important when our 9th Guru died, why are they important now?'</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Anything is mockable, personally, I give people plenty ammunition to mock me, my t shirt stained with yesterdays dinner, the wild hair, unshaven face, odd socks, etc etc, they could mock your nose, your colour, your house, anything, the question is whether you give any weight to such mocking, its easy to say rise above it, but do better than that, refuse to validate it, so it is their opinion, fine, big deal, my own personal reply is a standard, ' well that is your opinion and you are entitled to it' I never get drawn in, because as soon as I lower myself to that level, I have lost. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>of course, they are playing with you, just roll out the standard, well thats your opinion, and you are of course welcome to it, </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>You need to address this issue, you should feel able to stand up for yourself, if you do not feel able, then learn, take up boxing, or a martial art, I knew a kid you like you when I was younger, he was not gay, but he had a feminine voice, and he was picked on a lot, he ended up body building, the last time I saw someone pick on him, his physique and bearing quickly defused the situation, its confidence, feeling that you are ok, your not a weirdo, your just ok, I would imagine your bearing makes you a target, well it won't if you look like you look after your body. </p><p></p><p>we all can be</p><p></p><p></p><p>free yourself from seeking validation from people that do not matter, you work there, hone a 'work personality' that gets your job done and makes it easy to interact with people, do your work then come home and be yourself. maybe you are trying to be too honest with people, don't, people do not appreciate honesty, it is seen as a sign of weakness. Be truthful, be tactful, be honest, but there is no need to be so honest that you do yourself damage.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Harry Haller, post: 207791, member: 14641"] how quickly miracles turn to curses, if you believe getting the job was a miracle, then it should only follow that you should view any hardship as a curse, in my view that is the problem with putting too much on the divine and not enough on yourself. why should anyone scold him, people love entertainment, and people love not being the subject of bullying themselves, so when he turned on you, then it is a combination of entertainment and relief, sure they probably feel a bit sorry for you, but they are glad it is not them that is being picked on, that is human nature., this hardly the peak of wit and satire, did it ever occur to you that anyone making these utterances is only making themselves look stupid, all you really have to do is just look confused that anyone could be so stupid as to ask such questions. I always used to find, when I was wearing a turban, that a straightforward reply makes the other look completely foolish, and if they persist, then a simple ' these questions did not seem that important when our 9th Guru died, why are they important now?' Anything is mockable, personally, I give people plenty ammunition to mock me, my t shirt stained with yesterdays dinner, the wild hair, unshaven face, odd socks, etc etc, they could mock your nose, your colour, your house, anything, the question is whether you give any weight to such mocking, its easy to say rise above it, but do better than that, refuse to validate it, so it is their opinion, fine, big deal, my own personal reply is a standard, ' well that is your opinion and you are entitled to it' I never get drawn in, because as soon as I lower myself to that level, I have lost. of course, they are playing with you, just roll out the standard, well thats your opinion, and you are of course welcome to it, You need to address this issue, you should feel able to stand up for yourself, if you do not feel able, then learn, take up boxing, or a martial art, I knew a kid you like you when I was younger, he was not gay, but he had a feminine voice, and he was picked on a lot, he ended up body building, the last time I saw someone pick on him, his physique and bearing quickly defused the situation, its confidence, feeling that you are ok, your not a weirdo, your just ok, I would imagine your bearing makes you a target, well it won't if you look like you look after your body. we all can be free yourself from seeking validation from people that do not matter, you work there, hone a 'work personality' that gets your job done and makes it easy to interact with people, do your work then come home and be yourself. maybe you are trying to be too honest with people, don't, people do not appreciate honesty, it is seen as a sign of weakness. Be truthful, be tactful, be honest, but there is no need to be so honest that you do yourself damage. [/QUOTE]
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