What do you do when you are given a salwar kameez that doesn't have a chunni?
The problem here is the 'giver'.
Since they gave you something incomplete !!
I find this way of giving the most damaging to anybody.
Since, most of my problems in youth were all down to being a receiver of 'incomplete goods'
The emotional scars are still there !
I'm talking about how frustrated I would get as a child to receive fancy toys and devices at birthdays, christmas...etc.. and then only to open the packages and find that no batteries were included.
....Just thinking about it brings me great distress and I still have problems when in the store and the two voices are fighting inside my head of whether it should be 'Ever ready, Duracell or Energizer' !!!
I totally understand how distressing it is deciding on whether the suit was meant for a black,white,purple or two coloured chuni.
LESSON TO LEARN- and what i've learnt !!!
-ALways give your gift in complete completeness !!
I always make the extra effort to install all batteries in all the kids toys before wrappng them up.
I always buy my wifes matching shoes,hand-bags,bracelets and belts..etc..
Yes... she has as many matching belts and bags as shoes and hats.
As for what colour you choose, then that is your own personal choice.
Personally, when I am shopping for my menswear and I want some real advice on what looks good or not, I always tend to shop in a place where the 'well dressed 'gay boy' works !
I also find that these trendy gay men can also advise on womens wear and co-ordination much better than female assistants !!
So, I'm afraid that my 'hetero' advice would be completely useless !