Recent content by Rajbinder35

Sat sri akhal My opinion is that everyone has one life and it is our own responsibility to live it for ourselves. Our parents have had their own lives and they have lived them their way. We all know deep down what it entails to be a good sikh with a good heart, not just for display purposes...

Dear Narayanjot I have talked to my husband many times over the years and I know exactly what my husband wants me to do. He wants me to tell him/make him/force him leave his mother and then everyone can blame me for whatever happens to her and him. I have explained to him many times that...

I have read this with interest because I am UK born sikh and was forced to marry at the age of 19 to a 26 year old man. It was difficult because I wanted to go out and have boyfriends etc, however my family were very strict, and I married the man my father selected. I lived my life being told...

I have read all the posts and want to tell you about two people who are very close to me. They are both sikhs they were born in the UK. They are in their early thirties and ahve been married for over 13 years. They have been trying to conceive for over 10 years. She has many medical...

How very very sad

I am a british born sikh and visited India for the first time 5 years ago and I fully agree with all the comments. I was horrified and shocked at the amount of pushing and shoving that occurred when I queued up to pray at the golden temple. When I returned to the UK and told everyone of my...

A couple who are very close to me have been married for 12 years and due to her medical problems are unable to conceive naturally. They have had IVF in the UK 4 times and failed and they have now travelled to India and used a surrogate to carry their child. They were successful and she is...

I am sorry to be the one write this but you are not going to please your family or her family. You should both decide ultimately what is important to you and advise both families of your intentions, and request their blessings. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be and I wish you both...

Sat Sir Akhal to you all I am 35 years old sikh in the UK. It is only now that I am older that I am questioning a lot of the ideas and information I have been taught throughout my life. I really enjoy this website because it really does make you think outside the box. Whilst I am fluent in...

Mucho gracious