Recent content by Lenocht

Please don't be silent, tell us what you see. Or do you think this should be all ignored and treated like the elders do? Surely you would not choose to live like that...?

I don't even know what to say. That's how I feel. Also that the older generations would sooner destroy their children than recognize them as being their own person. I am sad to say, but I see it too often.

Re: Why Don't Sikh Girls Want To Marry Sikh Guys? Solution. I would like to point out, that often sikh/punjabi/GIRLS are not allowed to make any choices. They are not allowed to form anything vaguely like an opinon, and instead are treated like farm animals that are property and have no voice...

Yes, that is something else I was thinking of. Even if you do find such a person, chances are their family would sooner burn, and it can be very hard to go against your family. And when I heard this question, it breaks my heart, because I have to wonder.

Hey guys! If you would answer, please let me know a little about yourself (aka heritage, are you punjabi, gora, etc.) This is mostly a qustion for the guys, but girls can answer too! While everyone knows that there are many sexist issues in indian/punjabi families, no one really wants to talk...