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Composition, Arrangement & Layout
ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="kaur 1699" data-source="post: 122893" data-attributes="member: 11312"><p>A follower of Guruji's path would not date, because lust, KAAM, is wrong, and dating would mean seeing somebody different to a brother/sister/mother/father/relative as Sikhi teaches, or even just respecting them as a friend which is possible in today's world. God is our true love, and all other love is false and simply something we may want or like to feel we have. Waheguru has blessed us with Gurbani, and many people who have been blessed with Amrit wil know that in an amrit sanchaar it is said that one of the cardinal sins is any intimate relationship outside of marriage. to put it clearly, intimacy involves kissing or ANY sexual behaviour which is wrong. This means before or after marriage, there should be nothing.</p><p> </p><p>Dating is seeing someone with wrong intentions, you don't know who u are going to marry so this is not what Guruji's Grihasti jeevan is. That refers to marriage.</p><p> </p><p>If you have no wrong intentions, then c tht person of the other sex as your brother/sister or even a friend. Respect yourself and respect others. God has given us a wonderful gift of purity, why taint it? And, somebody who is clean and not dated or had any relationship is much more desirable than somebody who has been with anyone.</p><p> </p><p>Today's society is just an excuse to mess up, but it is possible not to by begging God for love and faith, and Gursikhi jeevan. Personally i know i was blessed to never date or do anything intimate even before the wonderful gift of amrit, because God is our saviour, God does everything to protect Their children. But why can't we do anything for God?</p><p> </p><p>Nobody is perfect, but Ardaas and trying to do the righteous thing will take you a long way. Do not be fooled by society that dating or any relationships before marriage, not just sexual, are ok..this isn't the case.</p><p> </p><p>Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji told Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj that it is a sin to even dream of another woman other than your wife..and sikhism teaches equality so girls it applies too! Since we dont know who we r going to marry, and only Waheguru can account for each breath, we shudnt hav thoughts of anybody.</p><p> </p><p>Even engagement is not marriage and so try not to see the person with lustful thoughts or in any way other than brother/sister/respectful friend. Until you have united with God in Lawan, and taken Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj's blessings, you are not married. God is your One, and the spouse you are given here is your support for your journey, nothing lustful.</p><p> </p><p>I know there may be many mistakes in this entry, yet Waheguru and Gurbani hold deep answers to this question which prove that Waheguru is all and grihasti is married life..</p><p> </p><p>please lets all take time to try to understand this, and fight kaam/kaljug</p><p> </p><p>Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh...</p><p>Khalsa..Pure... think about it</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kaur 1699, post: 122893, member: 11312"] A follower of Guruji's path would not date, because lust, KAAM, is wrong, and dating would mean seeing somebody different to a brother/sister/mother/father/relative as Sikhi teaches, or even just respecting them as a friend which is possible in today's world. God is our true love, and all other love is false and simply something we may want or like to feel we have. Waheguru has blessed us with Gurbani, and many people who have been blessed with Amrit wil know that in an amrit sanchaar it is said that one of the cardinal sins is any intimate relationship outside of marriage. to put it clearly, intimacy involves kissing or ANY sexual behaviour which is wrong. This means before or after marriage, there should be nothing. Dating is seeing someone with wrong intentions, you don't know who u are going to marry so this is not what Guruji's Grihasti jeevan is. That refers to marriage. If you have no wrong intentions, then c tht person of the other sex as your brother/sister or even a friend. Respect yourself and respect others. God has given us a wonderful gift of purity, why taint it? And, somebody who is clean and not dated or had any relationship is much more desirable than somebody who has been with anyone. Today's society is just an excuse to mess up, but it is possible not to by begging God for love and faith, and Gursikhi jeevan. Personally i know i was blessed to never date or do anything intimate even before the wonderful gift of amrit, because God is our saviour, God does everything to protect Their children. But why can't we do anything for God? Nobody is perfect, but Ardaas and trying to do the righteous thing will take you a long way. Do not be fooled by society that dating or any relationships before marriage, not just sexual, are ok..this isn't the case. Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji told Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj that it is a sin to even dream of another woman other than your wife..and sikhism teaches equality so girls it applies too! Since we dont know who we r going to marry, and only Waheguru can account for each breath, we shudnt hav thoughts of anybody. Even engagement is not marriage and so try not to see the person with lustful thoughts or in any way other than brother/sister/respectful friend. Until you have united with God in Lawan, and taken Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj's blessings, you are not married. God is your One, and the spouse you are given here is your support for your journey, nothing lustful. I know there may be many mistakes in this entry, yet Waheguru and Gurbani hold deep answers to this question which prove that Waheguru is all and grihasti is married life.. please lets all take time to try to understand this, and fight kaam/kaljug Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh... Khalsa..Pure... think about it [/QUOTE]
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