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ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="lotus lion" data-source="post: 100147" data-attributes="member: 5620"><p>Hi jk_81,</p><p> </p><p><em>"<u><strong>i have said to him</strong></u> before about religion, i have said that we should turn it around and <u><strong>he should become Sikh.... he said no to that because he loves his religion</strong></u> just as much as he does me (he said) but i know his religion is going to come first, and as much as i hate that, i accept it because its his beliefs and im not going to question what he believes... i'll put what i think across but thats it - <u><strong>i have a lot of respect for him.[?]</strong></u>"</em></p><p> </p><p>Just like clockwork. Queue Phase II of the relationship. He expects the Sikh Girl to convert, but not himself because he loves his religion.</p><p> </p><p>Look at this. Let every Man Woman and Child read this. Read it, and then read it again. Then read it one more time and understand that this is what is happening with Sikh Women in the UK.</p><p> </p><p>They enter a relationship with a Sikh Girl, Have their fun and then tell her to convert if they have not already walked away.</p><p> </p><p>Even if she does convert, he annuls the Marriage within a year or two anyway as he cannot take the pressure from his family who cannot believe that he got married to a "Kuffar", nor did he ever really want this in reality. </p><p> </p><p>Chances are that he will most possibly get married to a woman from Pakistan to raise a family in the UK without even blinking an eye. He does not want a woman who has got "history" putting it politely.</p><p> </p><p>At best he will forget about The Sikh Girl.</p><p> </p><p>At worse, he will make her into his bit on the side, his Mistress, so she cannot get on with her life or have a family of her own. </p><p>Perhaps he will have a child with her because mistakes do happen, and now the poor Girl is literally living in a High rise flat in a rough part of the City on Benefits with her illegitimate child who he does not really care about or look after as this is a Kuffar Child anyway.</p><p> </p><p>Some people may have no problem with this lifestyle, but it is not for me, nor for anyone that i know. </p><p>One is living life with no aspiration, honor or dignity and most possibly hand-to-mouth. Absolutely abysmal conditions.</p><p> </p><p>Note that this happens to Sikhs Girls from all backgrounds, be they rich or poor, from a good area or bad. Make no mistake of it, you are being used and abused to weaken the Sikh Dharma irrespective of your understanding.</p><p> </p><p>I wish to say that if we look at the roots of this problem, we will see that one of them is that Sikhs generally do not know about their Dharma. </p><p> </p><p>If one wants to understand the Dharma in a presentation format with other Sikhs who want to learn, just like yourself, I recommend the Sikh course.</p><p> </p><p><a href="http://www.sikhcourse.com/" target="_blank">The Sikh Course - A new perspective on life...</a></p><p> </p><p>A One Day course in places such as Slough, Hayes, Gravesend, Southall, Coventry and Leicester plus many more in the pipeline. </p><p> </p><p>Go by yourself, with Friends or Family, but go.</p><p> </p><p>Topics covered include Birth, Death, Happiness, Purpose of Life, Karma and so forth. </p><p> </p><p>My best regards,</p><p> </p><p>Lotus</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lotus lion, post: 100147, member: 5620"] Hi jk_81, [I]"[U][B]i have said to him[/B][/U] before about religion, i have said that we should turn it around and [U][B]he should become Sikh.... he said no to that because he loves his religion[/B][/U] just as much as he does me (he said) but i know his religion is going to come first, and as much as i hate that, i accept it because its his beliefs and im not going to question what he believes... i'll put what i think across but thats it - [U][B]i have a lot of respect for him.[?][/B][/U]"[/I] Just like clockwork. Queue Phase II of the relationship. He expects the Sikh Girl to convert, but not himself because he loves his religion. Look at this. Let every Man Woman and Child read this. Read it, and then read it again. Then read it one more time and understand that this is what is happening with Sikh Women in the UK. They enter a relationship with a Sikh Girl, Have their fun and then tell her to convert if they have not already walked away. Even if she does convert, he annuls the Marriage within a year or two anyway as he cannot take the pressure from his family who cannot believe that he got married to a "Kuffar", nor did he ever really want this in reality. Chances are that he will most possibly get married to a woman from Pakistan to raise a family in the UK without even blinking an eye. He does not want a woman who has got "history" putting it politely. At best he will forget about The Sikh Girl. At worse, he will make her into his bit on the side, his Mistress, so she cannot get on with her life or have a family of her own. Perhaps he will have a child with her because mistakes do happen, and now the poor Girl is literally living in a High rise flat in a rough part of the City on Benefits with her illegitimate child who he does not really care about or look after as this is a Kuffar Child anyway. Some people may have no problem with this lifestyle, but it is not for me, nor for anyone that i know. One is living life with no aspiration, honor or dignity and most possibly hand-to-mouth. Absolutely abysmal conditions. Note that this happens to Sikhs Girls from all backgrounds, be they rich or poor, from a good area or bad. Make no mistake of it, you are being used and abused to weaken the Sikh Dharma irrespective of your understanding. I wish to say that if we look at the roots of this problem, we will see that one of them is that Sikhs generally do not know about their Dharma. If one wants to understand the Dharma in a presentation format with other Sikhs who want to learn, just like yourself, I recommend the Sikh course. [URL="http://www.sikhcourse.com/"]The Sikh Course - A new perspective on life...[/URL] A One Day course in places such as Slough, Hayes, Gravesend, Southall, Coventry and Leicester plus many more in the pipeline. Go by yourself, with Friends or Family, but go. Topics covered include Birth, Death, Happiness, Purpose of Life, Karma and so forth. My best regards, Lotus [/QUOTE]
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