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Guru Granth Sahib
Composition, Arrangement & Layout
ਜਪੁ | Jup
ਸੋ ਦਰੁ | So Dar
ਸੋਹਿਲਾ | Sohilaa
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਿਰੀਰਾਗੁ | Raag Siree-Raag
Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
Sukhmani (262-296)
Thittee (296-300)
Gauree kii Vaar (300-323)
Gurbani (323-330)
Ashtpadiyan (330-340)
Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
Salok | Gatha | Phunahe | Chaubole | Swayiye
Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Ikk Khalsa" data-source="post: 181318" data-attributes="member: 19352"><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Gurfateh / Salam,</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I read your post and I became fan of your courage. I don’t normally post on internet however I want to put my two cents in your situation. Before I start I am going to admit that I will sound bias towards Sikhi but whatever I write will be true (no man made stuff) and also I am not trying to convert you as we Sikhs don’t believe in that.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I am male in mid thirties so I am considering you as my little sister which I never had. I live in Canada as well. I am a man of common sense and logics. I do not fall for anything that can not be proven or that does not make any sense to a normal human being. I was born in Sikh family and was/is not very religious however during past couple of years I got to learn a lot about Sikhism. I was somewhat atheist before because no one taught me about real Sikhi and never saw anyone living like a real Sikh (I am sure same can be said about other religion because everyone wants to live easy life and use religion for identity or cherry pick the rules). I know you are looking into Sikhism as well so I just want to warm you that there are few different kind of Sikhs out there so you may find more than one answer to your question and also hear some man made stories which do not belong to Sikhism (Guru Granth Sahib). </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">In high school my best friend was Muslim from Pakistan. I stayed over at his place countless times and loved his Ammi’s cooking and joked around, gave her hard time and then had to dodge flying object coming from her. He knew about Islam more than I knew about Sikhism (other than just basic rules). We went to Gurdwara few times together because someone had invited my family, not to learn something. Time to time we did argue about Islam vs. Sikhism or India vs. Pakistan wars or cricket players because we both had grown up in back home. I did not know much about my religion so I argued based on science which I still do to this day however I know bit more about my religion now.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I had grown up listening to stories not real teachings from Guru Granth Sahib. Some of those stories involved miracles which just pushed me away from it because living in this day and age I did/do not believed in miracles. Couple years back I listened to a preacher who was different than the rest of them. Whatever he was saying made so much sense and the more I listened to him, the more I fell for Sikhism. He was different from most of other preacher because he was telling whatever is written in Guru Granth Sahib rather than just popular man made stories of Gurus doing miracles. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I know you talked about if you guys get married in future you will let your kids know about both religion and they can pick the one they want. To me it is like having your feet in two boats and most of the time you end up in water. It would be impossible to justify two different things to any human. It is like telling them two plus two is four or five depending which religion’s point of view you look at it (BTW if you look through Sikhi four is the answer j/k). Can you imagine being that poor kid? Imagine telling your son; you can get married only once or four times. All humans are equal regardless their gender, race, or religion because they are created by same god or there are some kaffirs. You can go to jannat and get virgins or there is no jannat or hell after life, its all here in present life and it’s up to you to make it hell or jannat. These are just few examples but I am sure there is a lot more to it. I am sorry if I hurt your feelings in any way or form. I would love to answer if you have any question about Sikhism. If someone tells you any story with miracles, it is a lie because there is no place for miracles, ghosts, devils, black magic, angels etc. in Sikhism and the beauty of it is that none of them have been proven by science. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">You are a brave and smart girl, keep your head high. Life is never meant to be easy and I wish you good luck with everything. Let me know if I could help you in any way or form. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ikk Khalsa, post: 181318, member: 19352"] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Gurfateh / Salam,[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I read your post and I became fan of your courage. I don’t normally post on internet however I want to put my two cents in your situation. Before I start I am going to admit that I will sound bias towards Sikhi but whatever I write will be true (no man made stuff) and also I am not trying to convert you as we Sikhs don’t believe in that.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I am male in mid thirties so I am considering you as my little sister which I never had. I live in Canada as well. I am a man of common sense and logics. I do not fall for anything that can not be proven or that does not make any sense to a normal human being. I was born in Sikh family and was/is not very religious however during past couple of years I got to learn a lot about Sikhism. I was somewhat atheist before because no one taught me about real Sikhi and never saw anyone living like a real Sikh (I am sure same can be said about other religion because everyone wants to live easy life and use religion for identity or cherry pick the rules). I know you are looking into Sikhism as well so I just want to warm you that there are few different kind of Sikhs out there so you may find more than one answer to your question and also hear some man made stories which do not belong to Sikhism (Guru Granth Sahib). [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]In high school my best friend was Muslim from Pakistan. I stayed over at his place countless times and loved his Ammi’s cooking and joked around, gave her hard time and then had to dodge flying object coming from her. He knew about Islam more than I knew about Sikhism (other than just basic rules). We went to Gurdwara few times together because someone had invited my family, not to learn something. Time to time we did argue about Islam vs. Sikhism or India vs. Pakistan wars or cricket players because we both had grown up in back home. I did not know much about my religion so I argued based on science which I still do to this day however I know bit more about my religion now.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I had grown up listening to stories not real teachings from Guru Granth Sahib. Some of those stories involved miracles which just pushed me away from it because living in this day and age I did/do not believed in miracles. Couple years back I listened to a preacher who was different than the rest of them. Whatever he was saying made so much sense and the more I listened to him, the more I fell for Sikhism. He was different from most of other preacher because he was telling whatever is written in Guru Granth Sahib rather than just popular man made stories of Gurus doing miracles. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I know you talked about if you guys get married in future you will let your kids know about both religion and they can pick the one they want. To me it is like having your feet in two boats and most of the time you end up in water. It would be impossible to justify two different things to any human. It is like telling them two plus two is four or five depending which religion’s point of view you look at it (BTW if you look through Sikhi four is the answer j/k). Can you imagine being that poor kid? Imagine telling your son; you can get married only once or four times. All humans are equal regardless their gender, race, or religion because they are created by same god or there are some kaffirs. You can go to jannat and get virgins or there is no jannat or hell after life, its all here in present life and it’s up to you to make it hell or jannat. These are just few examples but I am sure there is a lot more to it. I am sorry if I hurt your feelings in any way or form. I would love to answer if you have any question about Sikhism. If someone tells you any story with miracles, it is a lie because there is no place for miracles, ghosts, devils, black magic, angels etc. in Sikhism and the beauty of it is that none of them have been proven by science. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]You are a brave and smart girl, keep your head high. Life is never meant to be easy and I wish you good luck with everything. Let me know if I could help you in any way or form. [/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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